She's a girl, by the way. She's been my best friend for almost 2 years. We have a kinda volitile reationship, we didnt talk from May until September. But she is all i can think about, and I don't know what to do.
2006-10-05 19:47:24 · 11 answers · asked by D-Money 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may take some courage but your gunna just have to tell her the truth. Thats your best option. Take her out to eat or something where you can be alone, and tell her how you feel. Dont just straight out say you wanna be my girlfriend. Talk about how your friendship is really important to you and you dont want anything to jeopardize it but you have to get something off your chest thats been there for a long time. That you think you are developing feelings for her, that you find yourself thinking about her more and more often. Basically tell her the truth but dont make it too too corny. Pay attention to how she responds and you should see your answer. If she says that she just wants to be friends then make sure she knows you understand and continue being her best friend cuz you could get another shot in the future.
2006-10-05 19:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Felix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there are bugs that need ironing out first off. What about the disagreement that stopped all contact for 4 months? That needs to be mended before any other progress could be made. Once that breech has been fully healed; I would send her a really nice card -one that expressly says what you want to let her know; perhaps with a small box of exclusive chocs or something.....actions speak louder than words . . . good luck!
2006-10-06 02:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Buttercups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you gotta do is use the old "i gotta friend who has a problem......." bullshit story on her and tell her all about it.....she will already know that you are talkin about yourself.....if she says the dude should go for it then thats what you do....if she say the oppisite, you look her straight in the eye and tell her "thanx i'll let my friend know" and that will be the end of that!!!!
2006-10-06 03:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you never try to wow her you never know how she feel about you.
of cos let her know that you love her . and you can start off like
eg:
you want to be with her no matter she is sad or happy. but of cos if she dont accept you hope you two still can be friend.
(must be what you feel)
2006-10-06 02:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by yeron ng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with her, then love her!
If your relationship is that intense, there is almost definitely some mutual chemistry going on. Proceed confidently.
2006-10-06 02:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already in love with that girl. Ask yourself. Isn't it ?
All the best !!
2006-10-06 02:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Smiling_Umesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please approach the situation.If you dont you could lose her for ever and she might find somebody else who will take your place as a friend and a partner!
2006-10-06 02:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new best friend.
2006-10-06 02:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it and see if she feels the same way about you
2006-10-06 02:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her! What else do you have to lose?
2006-10-06 03:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋