i have caught my son at home wearing my saree. i asked him but he told me a sorry. but again i caught him in my salwar kammez. wot to do now?
2006-10-05 19:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by raaga 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
sit down with him and other parent and talk about life/sex etc... get his view -tell him to say anything he want s and you just listen
do not judge him -if no other parent do it yourself -don't ask for help from others-your son will be too embarassed
don't be worried -if he wants real help, or it bothers him he will ask when ready
most important thing -is let him know you care- and are there if he needs you
2006-10-05 21:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old is he if he is really small up to 2 or 3 years then its OK(but always try to scold him while he does so).But if he is 7 to 8 years of age then its not OK as he would feel like he is a girl and it can be worse after wards so to avoid this check the enviorment he lives in if there is a girlish enviorment (there are girls around him he always see girls usage things like makeup set beauty products etc)if yes then try to create a boy enviorment like he spend his time with is father or with his brothers and his male friends.
2006-10-05 19:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me "insensitive" or "old fashioned", but I'd calmly say to him that this is not for boys so he needs to find something else to dress up in.
If he's a little boy just telling him that this is for lady's would probably be enough. Saying something like, "You don't want to wear something that's for LADIES, do you?" ought to do it. If he's an older boy, and if you believe there is more to it than just finding something interesting and putting it on (the way littler kids do) you may want to talk to him about whether he's got something going on that he needs to talk about; and maybe even letting him have his own so he won't be wearing his MOTHER'S stuff.
I think in the case of an older boy I'd ask if he'd be willing to talk with a professional who may be able to help him sort out whatever issues he could be having related to this issue. Having the issue may not be "the issue", but not having someone to be able to help him sort it out could be.
Finally, if I had to lock my closet doors I would. It won't help any issue your son has, but at least he won't be taking your belongings and wearing them.
2006-10-05 20:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. Presumably your son is a teenager, and teenagers are exploring their sexuality. If you make a big deal out of it, it will only make things worse. He will eventually find his own way and will be insecure about what you've seen. Let it go and don't mention it to him.
2006-10-05 19:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by holden_95927 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming your son is young, let him wear it. What's the harm? He loves you, and is just imitating you.
2006-10-05 19:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it away so he cannot get it!
2006-10-05 19:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him his own....
2006-10-05 19:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋