How to say wife that i hate her sister,brother and all her relatives, without making her angry ?

Answer 1

I dont think its any other way u can say this without pissing her off

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Sit your wife down and explain why you don't like them. Don't just come out and say "I hate your family!" Tell her about the problems that make you not like them. Tell her that you've been having these feelings for sometime now, and it's bugging you so you have to come out with it because you need her help to get through this. Tell her the reason you come to her with this dilemma is because it is her family that you have a problem with and maybe she could give you some insight on why they act the way they do, after all it is her family. Who should know them better than her?

Answer 4

Shes your wife. You did meet her family before you got married didn't you?!?!??! They are her makeup. They are her substance... Don't hate them. Just love them for their good points however small that may be.

Look for reasons to love them.. after you reach this point you can go about it like this:

a.) Wow your sister is a cool person most of the time.. but man when she does things like that it seems to bother me... Does my little brother do that to you too (relate it back to your own family's nuances) I know it has before to me (personalize the problem)...

b.) Don't do it all at once. Then you come across as critical.

c.) Think about a stranger coming up to you and saying "I hate your family, they all suck!" and then think about someone who is intimately connected to you saying the same. You need be careful and think about your wife's feelings.


Hope this helps.

Rm

Answer 5

Your problem is a common problem with most of the people.You have to be very diplomatic, this is a very delicate problem, since it affect your routine too. Bestway is you try not to hate your wife's relatives, atleast you don't show it on face, and neglect or postpone the things related with them. Without hurting your wife you must be able to show your uncomfert.During this whole affair,you must maintain yourself.I think over the period of time your wife may realise your disliking.

Answer 6

hate will not make life any better. have a relook at the people you hate , you will find they are lovely people in some sense or other and thats why they are here and attached to you. Then why involve your wife in your personal perception about others. Just ask her what you dont like in her relatives as a general question. Like if you dont like hoarse voice in one just ask her how your wife feels about hoarse voice? you are wise enough to give love priority over hate.

Answer 7

Wow that has were given to be the hardest component to do on your life. i guess you'll present day it as intently as you may want to. in the adventure that they get offended do not blame them it really is how society has conditioned them. communicate about that there are worse issues than gay you'd be. case in factor you aren't any more sitting in a penitentiary cellular today because you murdered someone. In time they'd come to settle for it. My daughter's lover instructed her kin and her lover's father beat my daughter up. He did not reply ok. i don't think of that in the adventure that your kin fairly cares about you that this would happen. in spite of the indisputable fact that, i imagine that it really is optimum you do it one on one than bringing your lover with you. That way they could get over the initial wonder.

Answer 8

u should not have such attitude if she has accept u n ur family wd full respect so u should also accept her family n respect them .u like that she is adjusting in ur family so u should do it 4 her, cause she is ur love never say this 2 her just let her know if any body did any mistake take those thing wisely cause she loves her parents n brother n sister .she will understand u n u will be wd ur love.

Answer 9

JUST TELL YOUR WIFE THAT YOU FEEL EXTRAORDINARY LOVE FOR HER BROTHER, SISTER AND HER OTHER CLOSE RELATIVES...SHE WILL UNDERSTAND THE SATIRE IN YOUR EXPRESSION AND IF SHE MAKES AN ISSUE OF IT YOU CAN ALWAYS POLITELY TURN THE TABLE ON HER BY SAYING COME ON DEAR...YOU ALWAYS MISUNDERSTAND ME...I HOPE THIS TECHNIQUE WILL SATIATE YOUR DESIRE TO TELL YOUR WIFE HOW MUCH YOU HATE HER RELATIVES..WITHOUT MUCH FUSS

Answer 10

Buy why you hate whole wife's family. Try to improve your behaviour. Hate to any person is not correct, In place of telling your wife you can improve yourself.

Answer 11

whether u hate ur wifes relativeand want to tell her that without making her angry,the best way is not to tell her but try and make up with them.........