When I was about 4 years old i had a female neighbor as well that was the same age. We decided to experiment once and play boyfriend and girlfriend. so we went into her basement and she pretended to be the guy and i pulled down my pants and she touched me down there and i lay down and opened my legs and she kissed me down there as well. I liked it at the time, but her mom walked in on us and made us feel bad about it, but she didn't tell my parents. Is this normal in children? Or am i a repressed lesbian?
2006-10-05 18:08:08 · 19 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It's normal.
2006-10-05 18:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by a_poor_misguided_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one but you can decide what your sexuality is. At the age of 4, most children play around with each other regardless of the gender of the players. You don't say how old you are now. If you find yourself attracted to women more than men, on more than just the sexual level, by that I mean, emotional, psychological, romantic, etc., you may be a lesbian. If you are still young, your curiosity could still be active, and you may be ready to explore your sexuality and find out for yourself what floats your boat.
2006-10-06 01:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your neighbor had been seeing sexual acts by her parents..No, this is not normal behavior in any means, children do what they are taught or by what they see..I dont think this means you are a lesbian, you were only 4 years old and didnt know any better.
2006-10-06 01:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No..but how did you know about oral sex? you may have seen someone doing it. there is no way a 4 yr old would know that. well ask yourself do you like females? do you think about going down on females? and does it make you feel good thinking about it? just because you did that when you were younger at 4 does not mean anything..kids watch and behave by that ...it's learned behaviors...
2006-10-06 10:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unlikely that at age 4 you even knew what sex was.
If you still are curious about Females then you can confirm your feelings that you may have lesbian tendencies.
Think to yourself, is it a fantasy or is it real?
Have you ever tried a same sex experience as an adult?
You can contact me via yahoo if you need further information.
2006-10-06 01:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by froggy010101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a Christian, I don't believe in the gay/lesbian lifestyle. Though, I do have friends that are gay. Anyhow, it is normal for kids to be interested in sex and their body even though they don't understand it properly. Four years old though does seem young and I'd almost question whether the other girl had been abused or had other experiences before she also involved you in it. Not saying that it is for sure, but is likely. Anyhow, for a Christian perspective, check out these sites:
http://www.answersingenesis.org/tj/v9/i1/homosexual.asp
http://www.equip.org/free/DH055-1.htm
2006-10-06 01:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin W 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Children love to experiment. It is normal to do so. Are you attracted to other girls or like men only. Most of the time when someone kisses us or touches us, it will be pleasurable. I can't exactly answer your last question. You'll have to do that experience to see how you feel.
2006-10-06 01:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok that was just children if you ever find other females attractive them you might be bi if you like guys to if guys ain't in the pic then lesbianism. Have you ever though of another woman in that way? if so try it with a female if you like it then go from there if not that tells you
2006-10-06 01:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by lilblueyes8058 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's normal. If you have a physical attraction to women, then check it out. A lot of kids experiment on each other.
2006-10-06 01:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by CrowsFeet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
repressed lesbian hahahaha. Look.......
That means "Nothing" its just children at play. All you got to do is ask yourself "When I touch myself do I think of other women"
If you said "Yes" you are a lesbain
If you said "No" you arent, and you think way to much
2006-10-06 01:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please - kids do these things without knowing that there are sexual overtones. Trying to import some significance into playing with a neigbour when you were 4 is extreme and pretty daft. Lesbianism has nothing to do with it.
2006-10-06 01:17:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋