I'm having a 4th child tomorrow and just wanted to check to make sure this wasn't going to be any harder than the 3 I have now :)
2006-10-05 18:02:10 · 12 answers · asked by Joff 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Well, I can't say having 4 was any harder than having just the three, or even the two. You already have the laundry, food, and clothing bills. Privacy has probably not been an issue for some time now, and that's not going to change. It's one more to love, one more precious little person to enjoy, and one more shot to get it all right. One more opportunity to see the world through a child's eyes. And one more person to love you unconditionally. I don't see a down point in this, in fact- we have six kids. Number four child is one of the most laid back, friendliest kids I know. SIngs his heart out in the shower and gives the some of the best hugs and kisses. So whatever extra he cost, it's worth it- every bit.
2006-10-05 18:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by The mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can handle it. The question is..is 5 easier than 4? I have 5 children; my tubes were suppose to be tied! This 5th child just blew us away! But we love him just the same. We have 3 sons and 2 girls and we manage just fine and we are "sane"..lol. Congratulations on the birth and joy of a new child. If I can do it, so can you.
2006-10-06 01:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by sdrose17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that it is easier. I think 3 kids is one of the hardest because they are always 2 against 1, hopefully with 4 they will have equal teams and so won't fight as much !!! Also 3 falls into the classic, oldest, middle youngest too easily. I am sure you will love them all !!!
2006-10-06 02:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by inzaratha 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Too late 2 question that if the bub will b here 2moro. I don't c y it would be any harder than 2 or 3....it is just another mouth to feed and clothe. Good Luck 2 you.
2006-10-06 01:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by bammbamm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when there are 3 the forth is not a big deal. and after they are growing to over than 5 years you will see that was a good idea because they will stay much time together, and so you will have time for yours problems ....
2006-10-06 01:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by pictoru 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every child is special and has a different personality,but,with the others around to help,it should be easier on both of you!Congrats!
2006-10-06 01:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually they are easier than having 3..the older ones help so much more than when you had the three.....
2006-10-06 01:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Holly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to The Mom, everyone!
Loved all your warmth, encouragement, and *wisdom.* You definitely deserve 'best answer'!
What lovely children and a happy family you are enjoying, and will always enjoy. : )
2006-10-06 01:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Financially for sure.
2006-10-06 01:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by gogojunk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It actually depends on how you train your kids. The number doesn't really matter, its really on how you train em' lil tikes. ^^
2006-10-06 01:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by ☺ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋