ok i am 17 and so is my boyfriend and well i go to my brother's house to see my bf becuase he lives by my brother house like on the next street and well we or both ready to have sex but how can i my brothers dosent want me to go to my bf house or go walking down the street with him either and i really what to do it with him but i feel that i dont have a chance, so tell me what i can do or tell me a plan so how can i what should i do and i know someone here has done this before so help me pleaseeeeeeee
2006-10-05 17:48:12 · 13 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to a hotel.
2006-10-05 17:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex @ 17 is a decision you will regret for the rest of your life. If you do not end up with this guy in the long run, you will have wasted something so special on him. How will you explain to your future husband that you couldn't wait for him? Now, I do not claim to know everything in the world, because I am only 19. I am however a virgin, and I am very proud to be one. Did you know that only 3% of people wait until they are married to have sex for the first time? Don't waste the most precious gift you have to give to the love of your life when you are so young.
2006-10-06 00:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey im the same age as you and have a boyfriend the same age.. and well i think its your decision to make, there are going to be many ppl telling you their opinons and give u plenty of advice but I think you should make your own decision, I mean its your life and you still might be under age but its your life and its your memories that your never going to forget so its up to you.. Frankly i think its better you wait until your atleast 18 ( My moms rules :P) Newayz itz totally up to you what you think you should do, you should really think about it hard and make sure u use protection if you decide to. its really important!, you dont want to go on the rest of your life with a disease, Besides How long have you and your BF been Dating?.. Well Think about it honey and hopefully you will make a good choice..
Good Luck to you!
2006-10-06 00:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We used to take a sleeping bag and find a remote place somewhere. The usual excuse of going to the movies, or whatever, will do. I assume you're old enough to know the possible consequences, so be careful. Seventeen and with child is not good.
2006-10-06 00:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is put periods at the end of sentences! Doesn't anyone take grammar anymore?
You had best leave the sex bit alone. I could give you some advice about where to go, and how to do it, but I really think you are being stupid! I won't support stupidity!
2006-10-06 00:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of thinking about sex, think about ameliorating the level of your English studies.
At the age of 17 it's normal to think about having sex but -apparently- you only think of the pleasures of sex -which might be ambiguous at that age- and not of the consequences that might occur...
Your elder brother is right!
Wait a little longer.
2006-10-06 00:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by ngiapapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girl don't do it with him! there are too many risks involved yeah you could be protected from having a baby but there is no way to be protected against std's std's can ruin your life and it could hort your future children you should wait until marrage where it can be a good thing not a badd
2006-10-06 00:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by allie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you both ready to take the responsibility of being parents? If not, don't do it. And do not think that it could'nt happen to you(pregnancy) because it can, even w/ birth control.
2006-10-06 00:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be different, save yourself for marriage, remain a virgin to avoid std's, pregnancy, and a disappointed brother. Shame on you!
2006-10-06 00:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by smily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex ..wait till your married or much older..a few years from now you'll be like eww i did it with him then a few more years you'll be like eww i did it with him too...you'll regret many things
2006-10-06 00:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋