Well I'm pretty much a goodie too shoes. I mean I'm total church kid, play basketball, volleyball and softball, I'm president of my class and also have a 4.0 GPA. All of a sudden guys seem to be really liking me. I mean I don't want to date right now and really dont like any of the guys that like me in that way but I think they think that I like them because I'm nice. I mean I'm nice to everyone but I think that guys get the wrong idea. I'm just a super nice person and I'm nice back to them too. When they ask me out I tell them I'm not looking at dating but they still take it as me liking them. Its really strange... I'm not sure what to do.
2006-10-05 16:48:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing you can do. You sound like a swell kid, and boys are going to notice that you're a great person. If you have determined you're not ready to date yet for whatever reason, that doesn't mean you get to have total control over the situation; in other words, if you're an attractive person, you're going to attract people, whether you want to or not. What you can be in charge of is your personal convictions.
2006-10-05 16:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm pretty much a goodie too shoes. I mean I'm total church kid, play basketball, volleyball and softball, I'm president of my class and also have a 4.0 GPA. All of a sudden guys seem to be really liking me. I mean I don't want to date right now and really dont like any of the guys that like me in that way but I think they think that I like them because I'm nice. I mean I'm nice to everyone but I think that guys get the wrong idea. I'm just a super nice person and I'm nice back to them too. When they ask me out I tell them I'm not looking at dating but they still take it as me liking them. Its really strange... I'm not sure what to do.
that sounds so much like me pls IM me any time u feel like it
2006-10-05 16:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is only an ego component. You being his female is better like you being truly one of his females. He probable is conscious you aren't any more relationship, yet likes fantastic out with you and would imagine there will be some thing. careful, guy acquaintances pretty a lot continually have a purpose. some guy take the direct 'ask you out' attitude, some adult adult males play the chum course and attempt to get on the purpose of you hoping you'll see the effortless and fall for them. till he already has a lady friend, continually assume he's attempting to get with you.
2016-11-26 20:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys at your age may get the wrong impression. It's not your fault, it's a hormonal thing. If you are not wanting a relationship then don't have one. Remain friends and continue to be friendly.
If someone misconstrues your friendliness, explain you treat everyone this way and that will save people from getting the wrong idea or hurt feelings.
Go on and be the friendly, smart, perky you.
Good luck.
2006-10-05 16:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bexcy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad... But if you are not ready to date, its not the end of the world...
You can probably go out in a friendly date, but make sure you let them know you are not into the romantic date status with them, that you like him as a friend and you want it to stay like that...
And whenever you feel ready to start dating you will enjoy the experience... Good luck...
2006-10-05 16:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by goodgirl2c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, you just want to be friends. It doesnt sound like you are doing anything wrong. I don't like girls that flirt and mess with a guy and then say they aren't interested. But it sounds like the guys are just being punks, you must be pretty. Just be firm with them, you don't have to mean to get them away from you, just avoid them and firmly tell them to leave you alone if you need to.
2006-10-05 16:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by marcus K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sup Miss "Super Nice", I thought it's the job of others to tell you if you're nice or not, and not you commending yourself. What if what you thought was being nice in your own worldview is beng mean in others? In other words leave the self praise thing to others to do. Thank you.
2006-10-05 16:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by scooby doo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. It's nice that you're putting the important things first and waiting to date.
Just stand firm, no matter what any guy thinks. You're on the right track, I wouldn't change what you're doing.
2006-10-05 16:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by CE S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try letting them know that u have alot on ur plate and depending on how old u r that your parents dont want u dating, or that u cant dedicate any time to someone because u have ur studies to deal with first and foremost but also try and be more assertive with ur replies , thank u but i really dont think its possible for us to date we dont have alot in common or sorry but i have someone in my life already.and when they ask who just throw them off by saying god, it isnt a lie is it,ok then good luck.
2006-10-05 16:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems dorks are more attractive nowdays lol . Really people do get the wrong impression if your nice guys will do lol.
2006-10-05 16:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋