He knows how much it upsets me and I can't get over it no matter how hard I try. Yet, he wont stop talking to this girl. He knows I hate her talking to him and he wont stop no matter what, especially when he gets drunk, which is everyday this week so far. He says jealousy is unbecoming and I shouldn't be insecure or jealous over it. I can't help it. Everytime he talks to her my heart breaks all over again. Is it really my fault? Am I really in the wrong to ask him to stop talking to her?
2006-10-05 16:35:02 · 18 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, how many more hints do you want? a drunk, saying someone elses name, will not do what you want when he knows that little thing will make you feel better..giirrrrl!
2006-10-05 16:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by naa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your guy loves you and knows that you dislike him talking to that girl but still does it, he doesn't love you that much.
He is selfish as far as i can say. I know how bad you feel because I was in your situation before.
The girl was staying at my house and tired to seduce my husband, or at least, made me jealous all the time. I couldn't take it anymore and asked my friend for advice ( a guy). He told me that I have to take the risk and tell my boyfriend that i want the girl to move out. If he says no, then I better break the relationship off. He is truly loves me, he would do something to make me feel secured and better.
In the end, he said it's OK if i really can't live with her, i should tell her to move out.
I did.
2006-10-05 23:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not wrong for asking him to stop talking to her. he made a commitment to YOU not her. You need to let him know how you feel whether it hurts you or not. You need to do it immediately because as the relationship grows it will become harder. I believe that your feelings are stronger than his. Sounds like hes trying to have his cake AND eat it too. you deserve better than that even though it seems hard to break away from him.
2006-10-05 23:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by mjt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all the only girl he should be talking too is you and if he respected you he wouldnt even try to hurt you by talking to the next ***** you see you dont even deserve that why would you allow him to dog you out like that dont be weak do it right back to him and see if he likes it when you start talking to other guys around him i bet you he wont like it so why is it ok for him to do it and not you i say leave him because why is he so interested in talking to the girl you cant stand he probably likes her thats the way it looks girl my advice to you is go out and find yourself a new play thing and good luck .....E and p. s. its never our fault wink...wink peace.
2006-10-05 23:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by ellie_m1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently he is in love with this other girl. You deserve better. Don't let him use you any longer. Tell him to hit the road and don't look back. Find someone else, there are plenty of guys out there for you to choose from. I hope this helps.
2006-10-05 23:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows that this girl makes you up set and he don't stop talking to her he really must care for her i feels as though you need to move on its not being jealous its about respect
2006-10-05 23:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by leeleemd1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wrong to keep dating him! He talks to the girl all the time you ask him to stop and he doesn't want to and he mentions her name while trying to say he loves you? You can't help who you love I guess.
I'd put him in his place, the trash can.
2006-10-05 23:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes playing you for stupid. I wouldnt give him a second thought. Hes messing aound with this girl, you can count on it. Id let her have him. Dont let ppl hurt you like that.....thats the part thats unbecoming.
2006-10-05 23:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very big red flag, what if the tables turned and it was you that was talking to a guy he hated and dident want you talking to???? would it matter to him??????? dump him you deserve better, if he knows how you feel about this girl and he still talks to her, theres room for concern for you you. but seems like he doesnt care what you feel or think. move on hun, alot better is out there somewhear for you. good luck!!!
2006-10-05 23:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It;s just a deep thought that makes a person say another person's name. Sounds good? That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
2006-10-05 23:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Tigger-Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋