why some married men know that they have wives at home,and still they dont want to use protection.knowing that if you are not protected it could result into unwanted pregnancies, and std's if the other woman is not taking any birthcontrol.If the other woman becomes pregnant,the married man always wants the other woman to get an abortion, b/c the man do not want the wife too find out what kind of man he really is.If the other woman choose too have the baby , then the married man walks away.Now the baby will grow up without his or her biological father.why not just wear a condom,to avoid the abortion or risk a child growing up not knowing their father. Most of all married men shouldn;t be wanting to get another woman pregnant, knowing it is a possibility that the wife will find out sooner or later. Men risk their marriages by not wearing condoms but,they get mad at the other woman for not killing the baby.
2006-10-05 16:27:39 · 18 answers · asked by phillygirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
A married man on the prowl is a shark, a vulture looking to rip off any unsuspecting girl or woman gullible enough to open her life and legs to him.
It is quite smart of you to realize how irresponsible and immature it is for a married man to enter into affairs outside his marriage, as he's looking to take and not give, please only himself, and make a fool out of the woman involved, his wife, and any children he has. It's a way to practice hatred against all of them.
Don't fall for it! If you're being courted by a married man, ignore him or tell him to get lost. If you're involved with a married man, dump him tonight! Even if he pays all your bills and buys you expensive jewelry, it's all a sham; you're not in his will and he won't acknowledge your relationship to any of the important people in his life.
2006-10-05 16:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both sexes flirt with fire when it comes to messing around with married men/women. In fact, some married men and women sleep with same sex partners. Why do they do it? There are four reasons:
1. They enjoy the rush of doing something they know they're not supposed to be doing.
2. They are being completely selfish.
3. They are trying to fulfill a need.
4. They are hiding their true desires and can't be honest about who they really are.
In this day and age, anyone who is not in a monogamous relationship and doesn't use protection is asking for trouble!! He or she not only stands to have a child out of wedlock but is also putting their wife/husband and (unborn children) at risk for STD's and HIV.
If you or someone you know is in a relationship where their spouse has cheated on them, please encourage them to see their doctor immediately to be checked for STD's and HIV. Then, encourage them to divorce this partner... because, if they do it once, they'll do it again and no-one is worth that kind of abuse!!!
I'd rather have someone hit me than cheat on me... at least I know I'm being abused and can leave. However, when someone cheats, generally the wife/husband is the last to find out and by then the damage may have already been done.
When a man asks a woman to have an abortion, he's scared, selfish and completely uncaring. He's not a man!!
2006-10-05 16:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked why do married men get other women pregnant, but I believe the real question should be why do the other women 'let' themselves get pregnant. First of all, they should not be sleeping with those married men when they should know that they are not going to leave their wives for them. But, if they do want to indulge as it were, then they should insist that the men wear protection or they should protect themselves. But, of course, cheating, has been going on since the beginning of time and unfortunately, it will not stop no matter what we say. Until the morals of people change, that will not change. So, women, please say no or at least have the sense to use protection.
2006-10-05 16:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by just4fun 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you have men who dont know what a marriage is about. They feel guilty (and should) and so a quick fix for them is abortion- They arent the ones dealing with a changing body and all that goes with getting pregnant-- They just want a quick fix and i mean that in 2 ways-- the sex and getting rid of the consequence.
Not all men cheat but there are tons that do and they create a bad rep for the Good Guys out there! Too the ones who stay true-- Hats off to ya!!
2006-10-05 16:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? Having seen what happens to so many children conceived this way, I think the only choice a woman has in this situation is abortion or adoption. It's too cruel for the child, too cruel for the wife/fiance, too cruel for the other children in the situation, and it's hard for the mom who inevitably is left with nothing but possibly a child support payment. This guy is obviously not the kind to be tied to the mother of his child, so there's no reason to risk putting yourself or another person through the heartache. Please rethink what you're doing. You will feel happier with yourself by doing the right thing and finding an unattached guy to have sex with.
2016-03-18 05:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not go for a single man? why do you have to be with a married guy? why didn't you tell him to put on a condom?
you are asking a rediculous question. if you get pregnant by a married man expect it to be on the dl or him walk away completly. you have to count on the chance he has kids at home. a fling is a fling but you as the single one needs to know when to move on!
2006-10-05 16:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, why do women go out with men who are married and then get pregnant by them? Don't just get mad at the man, now!
2006-10-05 16:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe they want to get caught, so they can get out of the marriage the easy way. There has got to be something wrong with their marriage if a man is looking else where for comfort and personal contact.............ya know??
2006-10-05 16:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Beaner80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a loaded statement there. remember it takes to to tango, so don;t just blame it on the Man. If the woman knowlingly has sex with the married man, she is just as much at fault. I had it happen to the opposite to me, my wife slept arond on me knowing what could happen and then asked me to help her, NOT!! So I left her high and dry...Not my fault she decided to screw around on me while I was on deployment with Military...So think you need to not go on the male bashing and it is a two way street.
2006-10-05 16:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by back2skewl 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Good rule of thumb: married men who want to cheat on their wives are lying dogs and you should not have sex with them, condom or not.
2006-10-05 16:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by lifeloom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋