Do I really Like Him?

Question

4 years back I dated this guy for about three months It was not serious but after we broke up we became great friends and we have remained friends until now but snice I have chaged High School I see him every day and now I cant stop thinking about him I dont think he is cute but he is not ugly. I need to know I I really like him because Im torn

Answer 1

1 You keep thinking about him
2 You get butterflies flying around your head when hes near you.
3 Youre hardcore nice to him.
4 You always have time for him.
5 You miss hearing his voice and spending time with him.
If any of the above happens to you, then YES you like him.

Answer 2

it seems to me as if you still have feelings for this guy maybe you should try to get back with him but before you do think about the reasons why you and him broke up and put into consideration do i really want to go through what we once shared again because if you are better as friends then maybe you can be lovers later on only you and him can make that decision but if you feel like you cant stand it and you have to see him then invite him out maybe for a burger or just a movie this way you guys can talk and just see where it takes you from there ok have fun and good luck..E

Answer 3

To like someone or not dependz on "WHY".,.. ask urself, Why do i like him? do i like hiz personality ? do i care for him ?doez he make me happy ? iz he there for me when i need him ? do i feel he carez for me ? doez he make me feel special? U say u've known & been good friendz with him for a long time .. & NOW ur feelin' this... i think u didnt feel this way b4 coz u didnt give urself the chance to know the guy .. u just judged by the cover ... & now that u got to know him alot better & became close friendz with him, u saw somethin u never thought ud see,, & u liked it ... I think u really like the guy for who he iz az a person & not for shallow reazonz like lookz r'anything else .. & at the end of ur question u mentioned u were "torn",, this meanz ur hurting ,,, coz u do want him az more than a friend, but coz u two have dated a long time ago, ur thinkin' maybe itz not how u really feel.. so i'll cut it short for u , U LIKE THE GUY!! so start lookin' for signz that show he feelz the same, then start a new "fresh" begining from there!

Answer 4

The answer is YES. You still like him. You still feel this spark whenever you mee him but then, based from what you said.. You two broke up before.. Maybe you are not yet ready for a serious relationship. It could also be that you don't know what you're looking for in him during the times when you two are still a couple, and after seeing him often, you felt this urge to rekindle some moments you two shared. YOU WANTED TO GIVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP ANOTHER CHANCE..

Advice here.. Be true to your feelings and to yourself. If you really wanted to go back to him (provided that he's not in a new relationship), talk to him then. Save your worries but of course, be ready for whatever may happen..Remember that he can say 'No' to you anytime..

Good luck then...

Answer 5

It's the connection you both have. That can be very strong and create an attraction. Sometimes when you stop being around someone (like changing schools) you find out you have great chemistry and you miss them more than you thought you would. The best thing whether you date again or not, is his friendship.
Maybe you have grown and are ready to try (with him) again. You need to soul search, you only know the answer. Good luck.

Answer 6

you dont like him, cause if you do you would be not only saying that you are only thinking of him, but you must have said he inspires you from day to day , and when you see him he makes you smile and that you would be willing to share his pain and that you are not afraid of whatever it is, what you are experiencing is romantic infatuation, you do not love him, love is such a strong word....i also see this guy everyday, i thought i loved him and even felt he completes me, but seeing things right now, i just had no other options, you have not met your match, that is just one hell big of a big crush, trust me you are not yet in love,,you like him but what youre feeling right now has no basis, has no proof, has no foundation or support to succeed

Answer 7

MAYBE HE IS JUST A OLD FLING TYPE.

MAYBE HE HAD TOP 10 OOPS IN HIM AND NOW DAYS HE HAS NONE. HE MIGHT NOT BE MR. USA BUT HE HAS REALLY MATURED AND DOES THINGS BETTER. SO YOU PROBALLY SAID IF HE LEFT DOING THE TOP 10 OOPS, HE'D BE A GREAT GUY FOR ME. WELL NOW THAT HE HAS, YOU PROBALLY SAY DAMN, HE IS DA MAN NOW.

JUST MAKE SURE YOUR FEELINGS ARE REAL AND NOT A LEFT OVER THING.
I WISH YOU WELL.

Answer 8

Well, I did roughly the equivalent with one of my ex's... I tried to date him again, and no, I didn't like him. It was just awkward because he was really into getting back together...

Answer 9

LOOKS LIKE YOU HAVEN'T FULLY GOTTON OVER HIM FROM WHEN YOU'S BROKE UP!! MAYBE IF YOU SPEAK TO HIM TRY AND FIND OUT IF HE WOULD LIKE TO GIVE IT ANOTHER GO TO SEE IF THINGS BETWEEN YOU BOTH CAN WORK!! NO HARM IN TRYING IF NOT THEN YOU STILL HAVE THE GREAT FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN YOUS!!

Answer 10

Yes, you really do like him deep down inside. If you were to imagine him with someother girl your heart probably beats faster and you start to get sad.