ok im a young mom yep i know i dont know who is my babys dady it could be on of 3 guys i dont know where he is and my mom dont know the hole scope one of the guys is tyler this guy i think i might know where to find him but i dont know if i should i think about him a lot and stuff but im not sure wat to do or say or if id want to be in a relashinship with him cause u know and i know that he would want to be apart of my sons life ans think its his help get back to me thanks kate
2006-10-05 16:14:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dear Kate
I think you are a very confused young woman and you should seek some councelling.
Please take care of yourself and your baby before you decide to seek out any one of the possible men who might be involved.... chances are they don't want to be found and bringing them into the situation while you are so vulnerable would greatly complicate matters.
2006-10-05 16:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to concentrate on your education and not the boys who may or may not be the father of your baby. Do you have any idea what people think when a young woman says I have a baby and there might be any one of three possible fathers.And it seems that you didn't learn any thing from this entire experience. You need professional help
2006-10-05 23:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to here that you have so much to deal with but your child will survive without knowing who the father is. I had my baby at 17 and now I am 29 and happily married to a man that loves my child like his own (he has none of his own). He loves my child more than the "father" does. So don't worry about that. You can make it without a father figure for him. Love is what your child needs. Learn from your mistakes (the men not the child-God never makes a mistake). And that God that you didn't get AIDS instead of a baby. If you don't learn from your mistake you can get AIDS next time. Then what will you have to tell you child...."mommy's sick and may not be around to see you grow up." Think about it.
2006-10-05 23:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by BWILD & GODSDIVA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
couldn't understand much of what you said but you should have a paternity test done to find out the father and then get child support or have the father buy things the baby would need so you could have some help. and also the father should be in the baby's life because a child needs a mother and a father
2006-10-05 23:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first... u need to be tested for diseases. Then we need to get you back into school bc your grammar is the worst. Next you need to tell your mom the truth and find your baby daddy. Stop thinking about yourself and think about the baby. If you even think its this Tyler guy, you should definetly tell him. Im sure he would want to know if he is a father or not or if he caught anything from you.
2006-10-05 23:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Curious One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋