Okay. I've been on Birth Control for over 2 moths now. Yazmin, and I've been taking it correctly which means it's 99.9% effective. Me and my boyfriends still use condoms though. Well I've been reading all this stuff saying it's so much better without a condom. So I talked to him about it and he's scared to try it because of the risk of getting pregnant. I don't want him to *** inside me yet or anything, I'd have him pull out...I just want to see how it feels ya know? He's worried about his precum though. I've tried to tell him the odds are reaaallly low with just precum and me being on birth control but he's still nervous. Any suggestions? I don't want to push him though, cuz he's never pushed me to do anything. So just nice suggestions please. Thanks!
2006-10-05 16:05:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those who don't know. We were both virgins before eachother so I don't think we need aids checks and such...& we're 17. Just so you guys know.
2006-10-05 16:19:04 · update #1
Let me tell you, there is no real difference in the feel with or without a condom. If you are considering not using condoms, you should both have an aids test and be sceened for stds. Also make sure that you are monogamous. Personally, I think you should stick with the condoms just to be safe.
Pre-come also contains live sperm and it's very possible to get pregnant from it.
2006-10-05 16:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be patient it's not all that it's cracked up to be!! I say if you're going to try it don't pressure him to do so if he's not comfortable with what you're suggesting then you need to wait for him to be comfortable. I'm sure he didn't pressure you into having sex with him in the first place so don't pressure him into doing this! Having sex with someone without a condom is a very sacred thing and I encourage you to save it for when you're not worried about getting pregnant or getting any STDs, basically save that part for either marriage or when you at least get engaged you want that to be a wonderful moment believe me. Besides if he feels pressured he won't perform the way you're used to. I've been with my fiance and even now if I've pressured him all day to come home and do something new he has performance anxiety and it doesn't happen the way it usually does. So If not for any reason at least that one, the sex may not be as good!! Oh here's an even better example the first time we stopped using condoms he didn't last as long as he usually did and the next time he kept having to stop and pull out for a while and then that took entirely too long I wasn't sure the no-condom thing was such a good idea! So if that isn't honest enough or at least scare your curiosity out of you then just use responsibility as a reason not to try it just yet, give it sometime!!!!!
2006-10-05 16:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, I was on the same prescription for 12 months and it works just fine. I even let my man c*m in me and I never fell pregnant, that includes the prec*m. It is completely effective and he doesn't have to be afraid. Tell him you've heard this from someone who has actually used the BC and it works just fine. Just make sure you are using the prescription as it was prescribed then you'll be fine
2006-10-05 16:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are taking the birth control correctly you won't get pregnant. Tell him to let it blow inside you. It is the best feeling in the world.
2006-10-05 16:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I wouldn't do it. Just because what if you did get pregnant? There is still a risk, and he obviously is not ready to be a daddy yet. No need to spoil what seems to be a perfectly fine relationship just because of some curiousity.
2006-10-05 16:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Became pregnant on birth control and he "pulled out".....pre-ejaculation got me..........if you are not ready for the consequences then don't take the risk. Always use protection and be safe
2006-10-05 16:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by KansasCityGirl26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your taking birth control, the odds of getting pregrant are very slim
2006-10-05 16:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Full Moon Fever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a lot better for the guy without the condom but you won't notice any difference..........if it bothers him to take it off let him keep it on........have you tried the ribbed condoms...those are nice.......
2006-10-05 16:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a diaphragm and some spermicide and then try it raw dog dont listen to people who say you cant tell the difference you can and it feel alot better
2006-10-05 16:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is so much better without a condom, but if he's not ready to stop using them, then don't force him to. when he's ready I'm sure he will tell you
2006-10-05 16:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋