what goes on in a mans head?

Question

well my bf and i have been dating for over 9 months and he never invites me to anything like concerts and stuff. like i live the boring half of his life, why is that

and he invites other girls with the guys

and i invite him to everything, i understand guys need there time with there buddys this isnt what im talking about, i even took him to his favorite band in seattle and we live in cold lake, alberta

Answer 1

we just want women. that's the only thing we know for sure.

Answer 2

Hi there;

Have you made your wishes known to him? If not take the bull by the horns and say so. Tell him you want to be taken to concerts and to dinners. If not then its time for you to seek out someone more compatible for you.
As for what goes on in a mans head? Please remember that men have two heads but only enough blood to power one of them at a time. So when the blood flows to the lower head, the head with the brain goes blank and stops functioning. Repeated use of the lower head eventually leads to loss of brain cells due to lack of blood. Large brain cell loss leads to being brainless. Pity them for this biological fact.

Answer 3

Move on to someone who wants to do those things with you. Why are you excepting second best?? You are better than that. Take care of yourself.

"He's Just Not That Into You" Read the book, by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

http://dating.about.com/od/justforthegals/a/NotIntoYou.htm

Answer 4

yo fool, ur bf is a loser. he either aint payin fo yo ho asss cause he is a cheap asss or he b playin uor he b a playa. Or maybe yo asss aint puttin out enough or u b a dead lay. u b the fool 2 put up wit his bull crap. U been playd fool. dont trip cause ther b lots of other guys 4 yo foolish asss who b treatn u right. go dump this zero. dont even trip

Answer 5

I had to see your question because of the way you put it --- what goes on in a man's head --- that was funny ..... reason --- I had two brothers (no sisters) - on my second marriage of 25 years and had two sons and a grandson born TODAY. Sweetheart --- NOTHING goes on in their head. WE ARE MUCH MORE COMPLICATED than they are......THEY DON'T ALWAYS THINK. He probably doesn't even know he's hurting your feelings. Slap him or something--- if he STILL acts like an *** --- kiss that *** to the curb.....period. For real.....

Answer 6

maybe he's just boring, why dont you try inviteing him, why do chicks allways think its up to guys to take innititive to do something, no offence but women have taken feminisim to an extreme and yet in a relationship its always up to the guy, and always his fault, try being more involved, it might just make a difference

Answer 7

because you let it happen, start making plans for the 2 of you and tell him dates and times if he doesn't want to kick his a** to the curb and find some one who does. Good Luck

Answer 8

Most man prefer freedom... They are scare you might be 'ambarass' to his friend or what. Or maybe, you are the type who 'stick like glue'. (Sorry if I annoyed you) Or both your relation is not stable yet... Give yourself and him more time... I'm sure he will bring you out to concerts etc one day...

Answer 9

Well, he might not like you
because I know that if I had a gf that I would invite her to anything and everything.

Answer 10

Sounds like he doesn't care enough. Why don't you start going out with friends? He will get the picture.

Answer 11

He may be shy, or may not like concerts, may not have the money. Try to find things that interest him and find mutual ground.