what are the signs?
2006-10-05 16:00:13 · 25 answers · asked by kikora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your gut is telling you he's cheating, your gut is probably right.
2006-10-05 16:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Deleted 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
husband ??? well, there are many signs... change of habits, like the way he dresses and grooms, works longer on his appearance.... strange hang up calls when you answer the phone... changes his story about where he has been... ask him when he gets home, and then bring it up again 3 days later and see if you get the same exact story !!! no eye contact when you do ask..... whatch his collar, for lip stick, some women leave their marks on purpose....perfume smells, but he always has an excuse for it, but watch his eyes !! or he may get REAL defensive with you !!! less and sometimes even more sex !! strange but true !!! condomes in the wallet ... or in car.... leaving for work early or coming home late... meetings all the time !!! out of town meetings he never had or more so than before... you can call his work about that.... I hope your wrong and I wish you all the best........ God bless
2006-10-05 23:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all if he is different in bed or anything that has to do with your sex life, if any of his habits have changed drastically, or if he says"huh" when you ask where hes going, there are to many signs to mention, but just look him in the eyes and see for your self, the eyes never lie. Put your hand on his heart if your laying together ask him questions you know the answers to then just say are you cheating on me, if his heart speeds up, the answer is yes, good luck, and sorry you have to wonder, its a terrible feeling
2006-10-05 23:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by jason 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl let me put you on ,,,,,
if he starts getting phone calls and he dont take them in front of you hes cheating because if you his girl then he shouldnt be hiding anything from you thats number #1 #2 is if he starts hanging out more with the fellas and not with you hes cheating especially if you and him used to always chill together # if he always is in a hurry to go home or do something other than hang out with you then guess what baby hes cheating !you have to go by your gut if you have reason to believe hes doing the nasty most likely he is you just have to let him know what you feel and if he starts acting weird without a good explanation behind his behavior my advice to you in all fairness would be to dump him you dont need to be stretching your brain over one guy whos out there with the next chick when you could be getting all cute and hanging out with the girls and in doing so you really just might meet THE ONE you know so dont waste your time on playing detective girl find out the facts and move on and remember girl hearts dont lie ok good luck .....E
2006-10-05 23:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by ellie_m1123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes secretive.. deletes all the calls and stuff out of his phone.. or talks in the other room a lot.. eithe ron the phone or text messaging or emails.... umm... he tells you hes goingout with his friends and then doesnt come home or call u till the next day... or hes got like tons of female friends that he "talks" to.....
those are just some of the things that ive noticed with males that cheat.. doesnt mean that all guys that do these things are cheating but... they could be!
2006-10-05 23:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by im just me.. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the fact you are asking this question is a sign. If he distances himself. If you find yourself calling him and he does not answer. His all over behavior changes. Lipstick smelling like perfume.
2006-10-06 00:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by jessica h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally, he's cheating when his attitude change toward you. For example, usually your bf is not romantic one, but suddenly he acts as if he is the most romantic man in the world, starts sending you flowers, cards, buys fancy things for you. If this is happen, than you have to b careful, and start to investigate.
2006-10-05 23:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by yanti b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first red flag is when you become suspecious when befor you never was. when the normal routine changes, he is diffrent, acts diffrent, starts accusing you of cheating, when he becomes less attentive toward you when befor he couldent get enuff of you. and his eyes will tell a story to, if he looks away or cant look you in the eye when he is talking to you, red flag. if he becomes more hostile toward you or even in some ways violent, red flag. he will always try and make you look like the bad one. this is to cover his sorry butt,if you think he is, chances are he is..good luck.
2006-10-05 23:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When there's a steep decline in:
a) whispering sweet nothings
b) hang out time
c) phone calls/ communication
and the only thing on the incline is his cellular bill or the time he spends with "friends"
... suspicion sets in.
2006-10-05 23:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by apinkfreak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. stops calling as much as he was
2. has plans with friends you've never heard of
3. you see a lot less of him
4. LESS PHYSICAL CONTACT
5. makes poor excuses for not hanging out (had to walk the dog? please)
6. Doesn't want to get into details about where hes been and with whom ... hope that helped. It just happened to me.
2006-10-05 23:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kim R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's out more than usual
He's not into you as much or he's not having much sex with you.
He's lying a lot.
Whispering on the phone, or talking late a night on the phone. Not letting you see his phone.
That's just a sample, there's a lot more.
2006-10-05 23:04:53 · answer #11 · answered by teeka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋