There's this guy that I met @ one of my closest friends bday party.Well him and his cousin work w/my friend.Anyhow we saw each other at the party and after the party he told my friend he thought I was cute.So she relayed the message to me & he told her to give me h/# but she never would.So one day she was on the phone with him and I ended up speaking to him and she seemed mad.Well him and I talked and he came over and we looked @ a movie.Well we talked a couple times later and didnt speak 4 a while.She's telling h/not to talk to me b/c she didnt want him to hurt me!So 7 months later I got the courage to call .We talked and he sounded happy to hear from me.Well he asked me out on a date but we havent went yet.He doesnt call often and I dont call him either but I really like him and he says he really like me and he wants to get to know me better.Well I told her I spoke to him and that we were going out and she sounded happy.But she keeps throwing hints to him not to talk to me.
2006-10-05 15:58:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not really good @ calling guys.I really want to spend more time with him but dont know what to do.
2006-10-05 16:01:01 · update #1
It sounds as if this friend doesn't want you to get close to this guy, and she's throwing wrenches into the mix (some you don't even know about).
If you want it to work out with him, you've got to get to him when she's not around.
I know you say you don't call guys, but that's the clearest way to get a picture about whether he's (and you're) really interested. Call him and meet for lunch and talk. If it is natural in the conversation, mention this "friend" and say that you don't know what or if she's been talking about you, but whatever she's saying isn't true. Then don't bring it up again, just have fun with him.
If he calls you back, you two might have fun for a while.
Good Luck!
2006-10-05 16:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think your friend is a man hogger.. If she can't have him and he's not interested in her, she doesn't want you to have him either and she is not being fair so what I would do is not tell her anything about what's going on, if you go on a date with this guy, do your thing but don't let her discourage you, if she was truly geniune, she would try to help hook you up but she is a "hater" so give her some haterade and go get him girl! Good Luck!
2006-10-05 23:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your friend wants him and causing waves for you. just pick up the phone and call, if you dont she will .....
2006-10-05 23:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i give her props for caring but if she really cared she would want you to be happy just tell her you like him and for her to stop and if she dont i am sorry to say but ditch her and for heavens sake call him get your date you dont want to regret it please dont make a very common mistake and just go where your heart leads you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-05 23:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your friend hurt you?don't make friends with her again.
2006-10-05 23:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋