What should she do?

Question

My friend has this big huge crush on this boy who is a superb guy. He's funny, nice, and cute. Only there is one problem. My friend likes him alot and well she does not know if to tell him that she likes him because she is scared that it might ruin their great friendship. She's scared that he might judge her on looks and not ever talk to her again. I tried helping her make up her mind. I told her to give me two good reasons why she should tell him. She said because he's my friend and he has the right to know and because he is nice. I then told her to give me two good reasons why she should not tell him. She responded with because he will judge me on looks and even worse my friendship with him might get ruined. I told her if he's nice then he won't care if she likes him. Am I right or not? Look I have to admit my friend has low self esteem about herself. She's not very prety, but she is very nice and down to earth. Should she tell this guy that she likes him?

I don't think my friend should hook up with him because then it will hurt their friendship, but she makes this so complicating because she wants him to know, but then she does'nt. I tried to make up her mind, but it's like she is hard headed. She's the one who thought up about me asking this question for her because hse wants to know if other people can help her out on making a great decision. So please help her out make the corect choice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

If they are friends, I think that they should just stay friends. If she tells him and he doesn't feel the same, it could possibly affect the friendship. If they do start dating and they break up, they can't get back the friendship either. I don't think it's worth the risks.

Answer 2

well
if he's a good friend
then jus tell him to forget about it if it's a bad respons
and he'd be nice cause ur friends already
go for it