Ok. I'm a bigger girl....and no guys like me. I'm 14 and I really like this guy....as a friend...and more. ANYWAYS.....how could I be sexy w/o being slutty at all? He prolly already knows I like him...A LOT of girls like him. One of the reasons he doesn't have a gf is cuz he doesn't want to break any hearts...isnt that sweet?!?!?! lol. Anyways. How can I be age appropriately sexy w/o being slutty...at school? Thanx!
2006-10-05 15:46:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
k well hunnas i am in hs...freshman. k? so dont say to wait until im in hs (like one person already has) cuz i AM in hs. lol. and yes hun my views did change from last yr to this yr...total 180. lol. and im fine just being friends with him...id just like to try for a little more w/o being obvious. and he is NOT gay. he is a total flirt...all of his friends are girls mostly. and so like yeah...we have had a serious talk..a serious, deep talk for an hr at a football game...and he is almost never serious so that is a great thing. lol. but he is NOT gay. lol.
2006-10-05 16:02:01 · update #1
You know what is sexy? Confidence! If you have confidence in yourself other people will see that. Don't go changing yourself into something your not.
2006-10-05 15:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm just going to agree with past responses that he may, just possibly, be a closet gay(I mean come on, did he tell you that he didn't have a GF because he didn't want to break any hearts? don't you think that he was probably covering up something else with a joke? you can't just dismiss these things because you desire them to be otherwise), or just shy. But, if you want to look your best you have to dress the best that you feel that you can, each and every to his/her/ect. own. And something that is sometimes important to being beautiful is feeling beautiful. Be confident, and keep a kind attitude.
2006-10-06 19:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by hey h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but he may be closet gay im just putting it out there. many boys who dont seem it are...trust me ive been burned by that flame. but if not smile your most brilliant for him, wear that shirt that shows a little somting when you move just the right way but can look like a total accident but only if you wnat ot. and hold hiw eyes with your s for as looong as you can. bump into him accidently and hold those friendship hugs just a little longer than usal. should work, if not hes a gay and theres better fish in the sea that swim straight
2006-10-05 15:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 10:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
psss, jeez, just wait until you're in highschool, seriously, all of your views will change, just remember so flash those pearly whites and flirt a little. oh, and its fine to be a little dirty, just dont over do it, and for gods sake, make sure you're not hanging out like those ho's, very unnactractive.
2006-10-05 15:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Pie Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14!!!! you should not at all be worried about being sexy!!! put your clothes back on, cover your cleavage and do your damn homework.
2006-10-05 15:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself and don't worry about others...you will find a bf somewhere along the road
2006-10-05 15:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't try to be something your not, guys pick up on that.
2006-10-05 15:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out!!
2006-10-05 15:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by teachr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋