im only in 7th grade yes i my be young but i got a ouestion there is this guy in one of my classes he is always trying to put stuff down my shirt and smackin my butt help i dont no wut to do hes sort of my friend.
2006-10-05 15:25:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he`s a bit immature. but he seems like he likes you. try asking him. face to face. or ask him why he kept doing that to you and be serious when you ask. he might tell you why he`s doing all that to you. good luck ! =]
2006-10-05 15:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not your friend if he is sexually harassing and abusing you. If he tries that again, tell him NO and tell him to STOP. If he does not stop, STRIKE BACK at him and then TELL AN ADULT or SOMEONE IN AUTHORITY.
He is not going to learn until he learns his lesson. If you do not refuse him and report him, he will think that he could have his way with you and any woman. He needs to learn to respect women as human beings and not just think of them as sex objects.
2006-10-05 15:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wooooooo. What kind of friend is this. For one what I see here going on is sexual harrassment. It might not seen like this to you but it is. I would at least talk to him and tell him that he is making you uncomfortable by doing what he is doing. If he does not stop its time to report him to your school resource office/counselor.
2006-10-05 15:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by dmac9836 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he obiviously likes you but hes goin about it all the wrong way . he sounds like a jerk but i dont wanna judge your friends. anyway guys flirt in different way s than girls so it may seem mean but he prly likes u. talk to him about it. does he have a gf? do you like him or youre just friends? if u like him then tell him, if not tell him stop. unless u like the attention. if this doesnt solve your problem or you find another answer you like. my bad
2006-10-05 15:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Old Green Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find out if he like u . some of the sings are already there smaking your butt and all. If he is your friend just tell him that u do not like him like that. And that u just want to be friends
2006-10-05 15:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by mary c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you uncomfortable, then you need to ask him to stop. If he's your friend, then he'll respect that. If he doesn't stop, then you need to report it to a teacher or your parents. Don't worry about him not being your "friend" anymore. That would not be a friend you're losing.
2006-10-05 15:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,, look honey,,, you need to tell him to Stop !!! he is not showing you respect, and boys have these hormones rageing,,, and dont know anybetter sometimes...
I was a young boy myself,,, if i had done that,,, I would have been smacked,,, and deserved it !!
good luck
2006-10-05 15:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of your friend? Is it just a joke or does he do it because he likes to? That's wrong i'm sorry, you should ask him to quit.
2006-10-05 15:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a private moment, tell him and say it stern but nice, that you do NOT like it when he does it...... tell him you feel towards him as a friend but that is in jepordy if he does not stop the foolishness... God bless
2006-10-05 15:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop it and it bothers you, it offends you and if he keeps doing that stuff you cannot be his friend anymore!
2006-10-05 15:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋