I am asking this because there are a few women that have posted questions as to why their husbands of bf just stopped cold turkey or slowed their activivty down signifigantly. My theory is that the sex is getting repetitive or boring, or there's someone else in the picture. But guys seriously, if your woman came to you with a situation like that would you like it if she took charge of the situation and steps it up, or what? Let us ladies know!
2006-10-05 15:21:25 · 9 answers · asked by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so much depends on circumstances in these cases. some men keep things inside. so any worry or pressure could cause a problem with his erection. anything from not getting a promotion at work or a financial matter that distracts him. an unsatisfactory result from the last time could cause performance anxiety. women don't understand that men use up a lot of energy during sex. sometimes it is down right hard work. if a man is tired from physical activity or not enough sleep an erection may not be possible. at other times men experience spontaneous erections.
this usually happens in public places when any relief is impossible. let's face it, there is only so much a guy can do to be sexy. with our one cell brains we are distracted easily. it aint fair but the sexy, romantic, newness of the relationship is usually left up to the woman. if you want sex, let your man know. what man can resist a woman when he has an erection? learn how to give your man an erection and you can have all the sex you want.
2006-10-05 15:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great if a woman plays the aggressor in the bedroom at times, however, if the man is reducing his sexual activity, it would do the couple good to find out the reasons behind it.
Often the reason a man may reduce sexual activity is due to external issues. Is there a lot of stress at work or home lately? Is there a medical issue? Is he perhaps just tired? Addressing the issue will go a long way to finding a solution, and getting the intimacy back up to speed.
2006-10-05 22:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be afraid to say 'no' whenever he asks, a lot of men stop the sex intake because they are tired of the same ole thing and they start taking their lady for granted...
disipline is sometimes a good thing too...
2006-10-05 22:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that it is usually because the woman gets fatter, changes her hair, doesn't keep herself up. What can you do? Part of any spouse's duties is to keep themselves looking good for their mate. Look good, wear sexy lingerie and jump on your man.
2006-10-05 22:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try making it more fun for him. Try different techniques, positions, ask him if he wants to watch Pornography during it, massages, anything to help out. Make it fun every once and a while.
2006-10-05 22:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be exciting to be aggressivly persued by your mate, unfortunitly that does not currently happen, [24 yrs] and others are starting to look real attractive.
2006-10-05 22:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married for better and for worse...and I have been without...so I guess I have to deal with the worse right now.
2006-10-05 22:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by rcpaden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to step in and take control sometimes.
2006-10-05 22:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold him down and take it from him! Hehehehe. That's what I'm about to do!
2006-10-05 22:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋