ok i got nurse outfits, doctor out fit, maid outfits, leather outfits, school girl outfits you name it i got it.. Fluffy handcuffs, toys everything.. But my reason for typing this is not to brag about how much kinky stuff i got but to ask if toys / outfits really do work on men?? so do they??
I reciently posted a question about my hubby and i and our intimate life together. Im not one to chat on the net about my sex with my hubby, thats personal but i did have some really great answers, one answer in particular spoke about toys. But you see i got them and we have used then over and over.. Can they get boring after a while for men??
See my other question for more info...
2006-10-05 15:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah.....keep them for specials times or mix it up. sometimes just be yourself....or you will be buying alot of outfits!!
2006-10-05 15:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know your man and you should know what makes him tick and tock. But I would use the toys for when you're in a real "kinky" mood, or when he ain't there at the moment. Because then that's another thing that will burn him out. Sponteneity is the word. And yes the toys and the outfits do work! I played dress up for my bf one time. I went to my homegirls wedding and he didn't go. but he wanted to know what i had on, and it was slammin, so i came out with it on, and i was modeling it on, and slowly taking all of it back off and it was on from there. Give him some fantasy and something for him to look forward to each and every day.
2006-10-05 15:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like anything, too much of it, too much repetition, or lack of variety could lead to boredom. We all grow tired of the same thing --- I mean we do not eat the same thing for dinner everyday!
Especially in our intimate lives, with so much sensory overload from TV, movies, advertising, and our own two-second attention span, we can view something as exciting as sex as hum drum.
Try not using the outfits as often or spice it up a bit, change roles, or thing of something new and surprising to spice up the bedroom. If you need more suggestions, just write! Good luck!
2006-10-05 15:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are intimidated by all that... As long as the two of you enjoy it KEEP onplaying I love toys and role-play never gets boring adds more excitement... HAVE FUN lucky bast*rd!!!!!!
2006-10-05 15:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Todd F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL MEN love role play - no matter what! Men are visual - they like to live in a fantasy land and dream of things they never had and never will. If you can bring it to life for him - he is one lucky dude! Work it out! J
2006-10-05 15:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by bigtruckjulie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It can get boring,yes,its important to turn things around, Using toys and role playing is a blast but sometimes its got to be about you being naturally sexy.
2006-10-05 15:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do they work? Absolutely. You're talking about fantasy play, and it's exciting for both men and women. Keep it up.
2006-10-05 15:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have alot of boring sex then one night surprise him with candles massage oils and all that, i can probably gurantee it's better than candles and massages every night. Goodluck and have fun
2006-10-05 15:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you be the nurse and check his prostate.
2006-10-05 15:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love it!!! Keep it fun.
2006-10-05 15:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋