Im getting a bit worried. Im wondering whats going on in my relationship... We have been together 2yrs. My hubby and i have not been intimate sexually for more than 3weeks now. I no its only 3 weeks but giving what we both used to get up to its very strange.. We used to be like 3 / 4 times weekly when we first got together, then it went to once weekly... Is there something wrong?? He doesnt really seem like he really wants me sexually. Like yeah i get hugs and kisses everyday, he says he loves me every day and says when we have kids etc etc so i know he wants a future with me but is it normal to grow apart sex wise when been together for this long?? im 21 his 22 so i would have thought we would be like rabbits still????
unsure??
2006-10-05 15:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL!
take it easy, remember the most important thing in a relationship is committment right?
because, yes, the sex will slow down.
In fact it gets really slow once you get older.
Just talk to him about it, see whats up!
=D
sorry, best I can do...
2006-10-05 15:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 and my fiance is 35 when we first got together we were hot all the time then it started to dwindle away and we started to just enjoy being together. I have an insatiable appetite for sex I need to have it at least twice a day but I can control that and just have a good time talking or going out or playing together with our children. I've learned that you don't need to have sex every night to feel close to the one you love. But honestly I wouldn't last 1 week without sex I would probably just have to do something totally irresistible to him and make him want to do it. I don't mind being the aggressive one to start things off a bit and you shouldn't either. Make him want it, if you have to give a little oral and do it right so that he can't ignore that feeling and if he doesn't respond, you better start talking Sweetie!!!
2006-10-05 15:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you guys are young. But he could be burned out with the sex, or could be getting it elsewhere. I'm just being real about it. Maybe it's not the quantitty it's the quality. You gotta spice up your sex life especially since you're married. Men aren't mind readers, and we have to tell them what we want. Communication is the key, and you got to let him know that you are concerned with your lack of sex..... but if you don't want to talk, just show more action! Men love it when you take charge sometimes. Squeeze a quickie here and there. Make it interesting.... Because if you don't some one will. Truth: men love a women in public and a freak in private...
2006-10-05 15:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sweet that you want more and more, I hope I find a wife like you someday. Lots of women get bored before the men do.
Well if he's bored, you oughta spice it up.
I think after 3 weeks, the situation calls for restraining him in the bed with rope, handcuffs, or whatever it takes, teasing him tickling him and torturing him, then having your way with him until you can't do a single thrust more.
He'll be bound to jump on you in the following few days if he's got a memory like THAT fresh on his mind!
2006-10-05 15:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal the longer you are together the more you all will not have sex i have been with my hubby for 6 yrs and we now only have sex once or twice a month. i think its because we were rabbits in the beginning that you get tired of the same thing over and over.
2006-10-05 15:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by sunflowerchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is cyclic, you'll find yourselves getting more distant, then closer again, in more than just sex. That doesn't mean you should take a passive role in bringing you closer, though. In this particular case, why don't you try to change things up in the bed a bit? Get some toys, wear something different, play a different role.....
Good luck.
2006-10-05 15:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As young as you guys still are...I understand why your unsure. The only advice I have is maybe try talking to him about it. Ask him if something is wrong or if you should be worried. I hope everything works out for you.
2006-10-05 15:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest - have you let yourself go? some men who genuinely love their wives can't get turned on anymore when they get heavier and sloppy. this may not be you at all but then again it may. otherwise i wouldn't worry. they say men do you more if they are cheating.
2006-10-05 15:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by JenaMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. He alone can give you the answer. Say, "honey, what's wrong?......."
2006-10-05 15:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Milie88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it happens. You two will be fine.
2006-10-05 15:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋