I dumped my boyfriend because he was annoying, being a jerk, and wouldn't stay out of my buisness. I told him to stop but he wouldn't. I really liked him but couldn't stand his actions. Now hes all sad and making me feel bad but I won't take him back after what he did. He says he loves me but he won't call me, or show he loves me by stopping being annoying. I really like him too so when i wanted to dump him i had a freind of mine do it then he was all upset. Now i feel super bad. Did I do the right thing and Should i feel bad.
2006-10-05 15:05:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't have anything to hide. But if like someone else was annoying me he would hurt them. I didn't like that and he knew it but hes suposed to be stronger than me but im alot stronger then him.
2006-10-05 15:11:18 · update #1
did the right thing more fishin the sea
2006-10-05 15:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by cupcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you try to explain to him first and let him know what was bothering you? and he still did not change....If you did then Yes you did the right thing. Trust me if he was making you feel bad for things and being mean to you...how fair is that?
YOU are the one that matters in the end of it all. You should not have any doubts because if you do, then I think you would just be lying to him and then you will start to resent him and you didnt want that. Good luck and dont feel guilty.
2006-10-05 22:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by njank99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were really unhappy in the relationship yes you did the right thing. There is no point continuing a relationship you are not happy in this way you will both be able to find people that make you happy. If you still like him taht complictaes the issue but if you broke up with him that would mean that he really is not the special one you are meant to be with.
2006-10-05 22:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has boundaries and when those are crossed it's not OK. If he couldn't respect those boundaries those are his problems not yours. You did the right thing in having respect for your own boundaries and not letting someone walk all over them.
However I don't think you should have made your friend do the breaking up. It's just my opinion but it was your relationship and I think it can be disrespectful to the other person to have to hear it from someone other then yourself.
2006-10-05 22:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did. You cant just stay or go back to someone just because they make you feel bad after you dump them. Also depending on your age, you have to question if you see yourself spending the rest of your life with him or it he just a pit stop to the man of your dreams.
2006-10-05 22:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Liyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing, you want someone you can love for who they are. You shouldn't feel bad, try and ignore your ex as much as possible, you know all he'll do is make you feel bad.
2006-10-05 22:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing! if you avoid him you will move on and have a happier life---which you deserve! Don't feel bad, you are not accountable for his happiness - just yours. If he annoys you...nuff said.
2006-10-05 22:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by quickspend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad. You said he was annoying. He will get over it. Dont worry about him let him get on someone else nerves.
2006-10-05 22:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Curious One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think don't think it was the right thing to have your friend tell him, and secondly, it might possibly be worth trying again with him. Otherwise, you probably wouldn't be asking.
2006-10-05 22:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wouldn't stay out of my buisness? what kind of things did you have to hide?
2006-10-05 22:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you did the right thing for you-and its normal to feel sad-unfortunatly that doesn't mean you should change what you did
2006-10-05 22:07:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋