military wives or gfs?

Question

my bf is in iraq and im having another sleepless night.was wondering if any one else feels like this right now?

Answer 1

My hubby is currently here, but I know where you're coming from. Especially early in our marriage. I would hardly sleep at all. I never felt like it was worth cooking if he wasn't here. Now, we've been in 18 years, have a daughter and I have health issues. It's all made me deal with it better over time. That, and time itself. The best thing to do, is write him a letter right now. Just let him know you were up and thinking about him. I usually send my hubby letters that are like journal entries. I send them separate from his regular mail. I just let him know what I'm doing and that I miss him. It makes me feel better and he always says he likes it because he feels like he's here with me.

Find ways to relax. Watch TV or movies. Don't let your body get used to not sleeping. And by all means, take care of yourself. He doesn't need to worry about you on top of everything else. Trust me, you'll be ok. You'll grow stronger and more independent. I can't say you'll get used to it, because I don't think you ever do, but it does get a little easier.

Good luck to you. Remember, you're not alone. Tell him that an Army wife appreciates what he's doing.

Answer 2

I'm sure it can be pretty tough and pretty lonely. It's a real test of the strength of your relationship. I've been deployed twice and had two relationships fizzle out as a result. If you are having problems talk to the other army wives and girlfriend, but be careful of girls night out. "Jodie" is out there just looking to console you and make you feel better and ultimately drive a big wedge between you and your man. Please don't let that happen be strong and be faithful and your not alone

Answer 3

I am a Army wife and I can say when my hubby left it was the wrost thing ever. I had to go home the day after and be with my family because I was so upset, but it really helped me. Just make sure you find plenty of military wives/gfs to be friends with since we know how it is, I think it is harder to talk to people who don't go through this. Things will calm down. You could go to your Dr. and explain it to them and go on sleeping meds. but I don't recommend it. I took some for awhile and you do become very dependt on it. Hope this helps and I hope for his safe return home to you!

Answer 4

i dont feel like that anymore b/c my bf came home but when he was out there i went thru the same thing like im sure everyone else does who has somebody close out there...all i can say is that even tho its hard just know that things will be ok and when u wake up in the morning u will be one day closer to seeing him again. do u have anything of his like a shirt or maybe even something he's given u like a stuffed animal? i know when i couldnt sleep i would cuddle up w/ a teddy bear that he had gave me until i fell alseep. maybe listenin to music will help u. its not an easy thing to go thru but just keep in mind how good it will be when he comes home.

Answer 5

I know it's tough. My ex was involved in Desert Storm and I was often home thinking about him for the months he was gone, missing him, and watching a lot of late night tv trying to get to sleep. One thing that helped was that I would write to him at night when I couldn't sleep. That seemed to help. Also, praying for him and for yourself can help as well. Take care.

Answer 6

All of us with loved ones gone feel like this. Don't dwell on it, stay positive, and you'll get through it just fine. It never hurts to have a great support structure around you either.

Answer 7

I was there. Once upon a time. I am a woman with 2 kids. Let me tell you, it is hard to leave your husband (boyfriend) and home behind. Don't lose sleep. He will be okay, God willing. Pray and keep hope alive. My favorite quote is "hope is the last to die". Good luck to you, be blessed.