I'm just plan and sick of everything, I've never been happy, all of my so called friends just use me, I sit at home either in my room staring at the wall or here on this computer. I have know one to talk to, im just a nobody and im sick of it. I have "No Reason To Even Be Here", so my be I shouldnt be here, P.S im serious.
2006-10-05 14:39:38 · 14 answers · asked by allan c 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I know what you mean, but there is a reason to stick it out, trust me. If you have nothing to lose please do me a favor and call 1 800 784-2433. It is a hotline where you can get some help. No matter how dark today seems it will be better. I will hope to hear a question from you again. Seriously, even though I don't know you I do care about you, please call the 1 800 number.
You can also try 1 800 273 8255. There are people who care and they want to talk to you.
2006-10-05 14:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Do have a reason to be here. Are you healthy? Have you been abused? Are you in a wheel chair? Can you see? Can you hear? Do you have parents? Sometimes YOU have to MAKE your future. I am abused as a teenager and thought of killing myself. I am serious. The abuser was never caught. With all the bad school killings and rapes - do you have any idea what that does to my pyschologically. But I am here. I am lucky to be alive and I WILL make the most of my life. You need to find something you like to do. Art, music, dance classes, yoga. There is so much out there and so many people are so worse off than you. Count your blessings and know that life IS hard. I know. Change your mindset and change your life. It CAN be so good. I promise.
2006-10-05 21:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have a reason to be here. Everyone does. You gotta search out what makes you happy. Figure out where you want to be, then the steps to get there. It's a long process, but you'll feel better once you start the journey. Or just go to the bar, have a few drinks, loosen up and meet new people.
2006-10-05 21:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there but that is a bunch of BS you make yourself believe. You just aren't looking in the right place. If you have very unusual interests or hobbies that most people find weird or uncommon you're in for a harder ride.
Just be your true self and be friendly to people. Saying to people to get away from you doesn't help them take an interest in you either. Just be friendly with people and look in a place that interests you for maybe a person you can talk to. If you like something considere d nerdy or unpopular like online video games go to a lan center and not the skateboarding park to find people that share your interest. This is an example of what I mean to look in the right place. There may not be many people you can find that you like or find easy to talk to but looking in a bad place is only going to make it harder.
2006-10-05 21:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Elitist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your mind (the way you think and the things you think about) and take your life back from the person you feel you've become. Insofar as everyone else in your life is concerned, don't give up anything that you want to keep for yourself. Take care of the new you and keep a close eye on the takers.
2006-10-05 21:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by -skrowzdm- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are still here is because there is a purpose. You should not think that way. I bet there is people out there that are happy you are here. I think you should go out and find some very good friends. I bet there is people out there that would love to be your friend. Don't think that way love your self so you would be able to love someone else
2006-10-05 21:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by blankis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a purpose outside of yourself. a hobby, some direction in a positive light. find something you can direct your attention to that will help others first, find out what makes you calm and happy.
for me it was yoga and exercise (biking, swimming) and donating my time on a town board. i found people who have similar desires and it has opened my horizons.
never give up on yourself, and never let the negative overwhelm you.
also make sure you are getting proper "omega-3 oils." Google this to find out more.
peace.
2006-10-05 21:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness comes from an emptiness from within.. it's called a God size hole. He created us and because of sin we are seperated from Him.. so He made a way to bring us back to Himself... He sent His Son.. If you have a Bible: try reading the book of John.. in the New Testiment. Will be praying for you.
2006-10-05 21:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by LAVINA K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are special. don't worry. you weren't placed here by chance. you're alright. it's okay. you're right where you're supposed to be. and if your friends bug you, tell them. make the most of your life. you can only live it once. why cut short so many possibilities and laughs? you're alright. just breath and know that everything will be okay. be still. calm down. breath
2006-10-05 22:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in the phone book under mental health. there are numbers in there for you can call right now. please dont do something to yourself. there are lots of groups you can go to and medicines that will help you....If I can help you I am at mfroeh@yahoo.com How old are you by the way?
2006-10-05 21:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by mfroeh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋