We have been broken up for 2 months now. He called my phone and left a voice message saying "You were on my mind, I know you probably dont want to talk to me, but I was calling to see how you are doing." What does that mean? He cheated on me that's why we broke up. I haven't called him in a month.
2006-10-05 14:23:13 · 11 answers · asked by Ebony_23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE CHEATED ON YOU. So what if he called. Get on with your life and forget him. Find someone that will treat you better. Dont return his call.
2006-10-05 14:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Teresa M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may mean he just wants to be friends and genuinely wants to know. If you can forgive him and want to be friends then call him back. Let him know how you feel. If you don't feel like every dating him again, tell him that but if you think you might be able to still be friends then tell him that also. Say you just want to be friends and if he can handle that then you can become friends. You might find he is a good friend. Honesty goes along way especially if you lost it at one time. And we could all use a friend even if we have a bunch. Friends are everything! Good luck and take it slow!
After reading some of the girls who say "once a cheater....." that isn't always the case. If he has cheated on EVERY gf then maybe but if he just made a mistake and realized it then you should give him a chance. Like I said tho, you don't have to start dating him. Be friends! Nothing wrong with that! Let him know THIS is friends only! Now if it turns into something later then so be it but you don't have to "show your hand" early. Just start slow and go from there. Don't go with that cliche tho cuz it doesn't apply to all! Mistakes happen! That's why pencils have erasers!
2006-10-05 14:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't work out with the girl he cheated on you with, and now he is lonely. Maybe he realized what he did was wrong? But right now I think it is lonliness talking. He just wants to be with someone (and no offense, you are the easiest target). Give it more time to see if he wants you or just company. It is super hard giving it more time, hours seem like days, but just call a girlfriend instead!
2006-10-05 14:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
female i been there n performed that, i don't understand how u sense because even as someone unearths luv they have a tendency to adhere wit that individual even with what. My boyfriend of four years has been cheatin on me for the longest n he might want to continually detect a fashion to come back again to me. i visit't in simple terms say that he's not what u favor, or come to a call no matter if u could answer the phone even as he calls, yet he in simple terms had to examine on u n prehaps he develop into wondering how u the position doing. they say that they could understand a good challenge even as its lengthy gone, mayb he ignored u!
2016-12-04 07:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt trip just trying to keep an eye on you cause he knows he messed up real bad stay strong and don't look back there more out there than him good luck remmeber once a cheater always a cheater
2006-10-05 14:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, he's starting to realize he lost a good thing with you! let him hurt. don't take him back till YOU see and feel the difference in you. You know what they say "once a cheater...always a cheater!" you deserve better!
2006-10-05 14:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Becky S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's either sorry for his actions, or he's trying to get you back...or into your pants. Either way, take things slowly and cautiously here. When in doubt, stand your ground.
2006-10-05 14:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I mean its possible he is thinking of you and thinking about what he lost, they fail to realize that the grass is not always greener on the other side.
2006-10-05 14:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by Teaza19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it a try...
but this time be more cautious since he cheated on u b4, if u still have the feelings for him then go for it.
2006-10-05 14:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cuz he regrets what he did and realizes his mistake now that it is too late. Gloat time, girl!
2006-10-05 14:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋