getting mean answers doesnt help either.
so if you feel like venting and get point things for it go ahead.
just stop answering serious questions with butthole answers.
2006-10-05 14:20:53 · 11 answers · asked by lo 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I just wanted to say I'm sorry you feel that way.
2006-10-05 14:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree..there always seems, with every serious question, to be some jerks out there. I read a question yesterday about a guy who was contemplating suicide, and the first answer I saw said go for it!...you can do it!...cheering him on! Thats not just mean, its dangerous! Thats playing with someone's life there. I think people like that need to be somehow banned from answering questions!
I also believe that the vast majority of people answering these are really trying to help though. Please dont get discouraged...there are actually some good answers to some honest questions that come through here.
2006-10-05 15:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I feel like that a lot for many different reasons, things that I really have no control over. I think a lot of people are in that boat.
Just remember, be happy you are here, in the present, and you have your health and are alive and well. Believe me you will see things in your lifetime that will make what you feel now look like a walk in the park.
The secret is to take a break from it. Put it "up on a shelf" for a while and will yourself to have a good time. Go out. Go for a walk with your favourite music on your MP3 on a bright sunshiney day. Enjoy the morning quiet. Window shop through all your favourite shops...heck buy something! Just get out of your mindset for a while. You will feel better. Don't go for the big escape, but just the little one...it will help for a while and you'll find you won't feel so bad afterwards. We all get into ruts or low or bad moods occasionally. Try not to let them rule your life. It's hard finding your way but it's also fun. You'll discover lots of great things and people along the way.
Hope that helps...hard to know what to say when I don't really know why you're feeling the way you are.
My daughter just had her whole world crash on her because she started high school and for the first time she made a male friend that she really liked. Everyone starting souring thier friendship though until he freaks and says you're obsessed with me....she was just floored and in tears. She was going to get everyone to sign a card for his birthday at school and leave it in his locker. She wasn't in love with him...but she liked him and thought he cool...problem is he just isn't mature enough to handle the attention...so he freaks and he acts like a stupid jerk and breaks her heart because she was honest with him and told him that all the girls like him and think he's cool. Meanwhile they all backstab my daughter because I think they knew he and she got along...and it bugged them...so they freaked him out and ruined it all for both of them. I know he is just a kid and scared and all but she is way too mature and good hearted and that kid is not worthy of her friendship period. Still nothing I can say to heal the wound.
People often hurt people not intending to, it's part of growing and discovering yourself...so don't beat yourself up over things that really you shouldn't. Life is fair to everyone...it breaks all our hearts...but we do mend and grow and it's all for the better in the long run, trust me!!!
2006-10-05 14:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with feeling like you do and being able to express yourself. Better than getting high or drunk. Now go ahead and vent!
2006-10-05 14:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by kriend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a walk. It will make you feel better. Then mabey you can tackle your problems with a clearer head.
2006-10-05 14:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times just tuning on a few lights can make you get in a better mood--ever notice how a sunny day perks you up? if it's some health issues please get a Dr.s appointment asap, don't worry things will get better!!
2006-10-05 14:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Connie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way be lucky ur not having panic attacks
2006-10-05 14:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by man_with_half_a_heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - I don't actually. But I am sorry that you do. Anything I can do to help cheer you up?
2006-10-05 14:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by Kare♥Bear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have depression i know how it feels
2006-10-05 15:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone, Mate. Have faith and hang on
2006-10-05 14:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Shashi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋