I wish it was the other way around but I need opinions?

Question

This is the thing, I'm a really nice girl. I have a lot of girlfriends that think I'm just the sweetest girl. I don't think I'm pretty ok. So I'm not bragging. But pretty much all of them tell me I'm pretty. Girls in bars when I've been upset about my ex. I'd be crying would tell me I'm beautiful. A nail lady the other day, we were talking this was the first time I went to her. She didn't see a wedding ring. She's married and asked if I was. I said no she kept asking me if I have a boyfriend I said not. At the end she said you're very beauty she called it why don't you have a boyfriend? The thing is this guy I see around that gives me these weird looks and said something to a friend when he walked off I thinking in my head he said I was ugly, I swear I think this. Because it seems as if more women think I'm pretty then men. What's up with this it really sucks. I wish it was the other way around. I mean there not all women I know some are strangers. So opinions please.

So what am I doing wrong with guys. I'm mean I'm friendly sweet dress nice. I'm an average weight. Maybe could lose 15 pounds.

I mean I'm a little picky but this is do to my past relationships that have been really bad. I mean I sometimes feel that some guys think I'm ugly. Like the pretty good looking ones. What are they seeing different then these women?

I mean a girl i've only known for a short time the other day told me I reminded her a little of Demi Moore when she was young. A couple of girls have told me jamie gertz. My brother in law told me Carrie Underwood. All different people here not consistent at all but there all good looking. I wish I really looked like one of them then I'd be set.

I mean obviously I don't or I'd have guys all over me.

I mean obviously I don't or I'd have guys all over me.

Answer 1

Hun, the best thing I can tell you is that you have to love yourself first before anyone else can truly love you. Women give more compliments than men so that's why more women say you're pretty. Men may think you're pretty but not say it. Also maybe you don't seem confident and that could turn off some guys.

Good luck:)

Answer 2

Women tend to see inner beauty while men tend to focus on "other things". I'm not saying that you aren't a beautiful girl, but what most women see as beautiful is the "girl next door", while most men see beauty as Pamela Anderson.
If the man thinks you are ugly, that's just one of MANY perceptions. I wouldn't give it a second thought. The right guy will come along, and he will think that you are the most beautiful thing that he has ever laid his eyes on!

Answer 3

Sounds like you have severe confidence issues.

I wouldn't go losing weight just to catch a guy. You WILL meet someone, and when you do, you want him to love you for who you are, not for what persona you present.

In my experience, you never meet anyone when you're looking. But when you least expect it, BANG, he'll walk right into your life!

You really have to work on your self esteem issues though, it's really sad that you're so down on yourself. There are a lot of self help books out there that could help you, and many websites. I'll list some below.

Answer 4

Have you considered that maybe you don't talk to guys enough? If you are so attractive as you say, maybe guys think you are too attractive for them! When some guys see attractive women, they immediately assume that they have boyfriends and do not even make an effort. You may have to encourage some guys to approach you, or approach them yourself. If you look as good as they say, I am sure you will have few problems meeting a good fellow. Good night!

Answer 5

Hmmnm, I would venture a guess that you are mis-reading the situation. I don't think somone would say somthing like that, however if they did... do you really want to be around that person? I think we all need to stop tolerating bad behaviour.

Answer 6

be more confident in yourself... find you a sexy guy that u like and ask him out!LOL!