ive got 2 classes with him and i really like him his name is whit ( short foe whitmore) he is in band with me and social studies . but i cant talk to him cuz every time i go to say some thing i get all nerves and end up walking away at the last min. i dont want him to think that im obsesive (which people tell me is what he thinks) but i really like him and i dont know what to do .at lunch i advoid him in band i advoid him and through out the rest of the day i advoid him im lost i dont know what to do .HELP HELP im calling for H-E-L-P. i've gave him notes i've tryed talking and i've even tryed haveing a friend talk to him but nothin seems to work i dont know what to do i feel like i could just sit down and cry.
2006-10-05 14:17:03 · 11 answers · asked by chanchan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about becoming his friend first?
If you are just friends there's no reason to be nervous.
Don't get worked up over him--just talk to him like a friend and don't put any pressure on it. Invite him to a party or to the movies with a group of friends. Is there are a football game? Invite him to go with you and a group of your friends.
2006-10-05 14:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This plea for help is difficult to quench, due to the fact that your age is unknown. So here are 3 diffrent answers...
Due to the fact that you mentiond social studies, i would guess that you are either in elementry or jr. high. If either fits your profile, here is your answer. You are in the beginning stages of life, and you have the rest of life find that true love. But im pretty sure thats not what you wanted to hear, so here it goes. If Whit wanted to be your friend, or get to know you, i think he would come talk to you. It may take a while, but what good are things if you dont wait for them. However if you are trying to get into a physical relationship with him right now, i advise you to back down, as i said you have the rest of your life.
If you are in Highschool, and you are somehow still taking social studies... never mind... The point is, hopefully your dating to prepare you for marrige, and your dating to find the right guy. If God has prepared you to have a relationship with Whit, then it will all work out. You may have to wait, which is the hardest part, but He will come through. But if God knows Whit is the wrong one for you, then you will not have a relationship.
Aside from this all, i would advise you to be friends whith him first, and get to know him. i hope i helped at least a little, God Bless!
2006-10-05 14:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that feeling. You're not alone. I have the same problem. I think you should try to sit closer to him in class and then when ever you need help, you can ask him. Eventually, talking to him will become normal, and then you can tell him your feelings about him later.
Who knows, maybe he might feel the same way about you too.
2006-10-05 14:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by aznbrownprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cheer up! Let him know how you feel and don't ever avoid the person you like. It'll make them suspicious, seriously...
Go up and talk to him sometimes, make a short conversation.
Become friends with him.
2006-10-05 14:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by soapsniffer712 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are in love with him tell him (its a big problem i have to) and if he doesnt like u back well u did all u could cuz nothing last forever even cold november rain.
2006-10-05 14:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Shuvaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Let him go for a few days, and see how you feel. It depends if he's interested, because don't try and go for it if he's not even interested. Then talk to him. Don't send him another note unless he sends one back first. Don't strike up a conversation unless he talks to you first, if you get my view.
2006-10-05 14:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by Snow White Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a cute non-serious card from Hallmark that sort of puts to words how you feel.
Put it in his napsack, locker or on his desk. Start off as friends, softly, and let him take it from there.
2006-10-05 14:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch him lightly in the arm, then look him in the eyes and smile. Guys punch each other when they don't know how else to express themselves. It actually works for Gals too.
2006-10-05 14:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by justdennis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think you should just forget about him. obviously he doesnt like you because if you've given him notes and stuff if he liked you he would have responded
2006-10-05 14:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think it of it like hes one of your friends be your self you never know if he like you or the person your trying be i'm JUST LIKE YOU!!!
2006-10-05 14:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋