See we still love each other, and the door is still open. But I want more and he doesnt right now. He says that there may be a chance that we could get back together later down the road. Should I want for him?
2006-10-05 14:06:43 · 23 answers · asked by chrisieloney81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You make it what you want it to be but there would need to be a clear mutual understanding. If you agree to be friends with benefits get it out in the open so there won't be any second guessing later on however, you should not want to get back with him later on. Never move backwards, always go forward. Remember that!
2006-10-05 14:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by missmozee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it like this if someone is paying u just to show up at work, and you can come anytime u want, whenever you want and yes you will still get a paycheck. Would you want to tranfer to a different department with rules and regulations. No If you give him everything that comes with a relationship he will never feel the need to commit.
2006-10-05 21:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Darryl M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men are going to string you along..lol how long were you together??if it wasn't a long time say 1+years..break it off he's using you why make a commitment if your giving him sex for free??if you have been together quite some time give him a dead line 10 days,1 month etc., either he commits or no more benefits find you a man who want more then a benefit of sex..
2006-10-05 21:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and wants to eat it, too. He'll keep ya around until something better comes along. It's up to you, but I would make a clean break and move on. As long as you continue to give him what he wants, he won't be able to realize that he lost a good thing, until he actually loses it!
2006-10-05 21:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no he's eating having his cake and eating it too. meaning that he still wants the emotional sexual attachment he had once with you before but also wants something new on the side. his situation is like hitting your head against a brick wall it doesn't accomplish anything. my advice would be to break clean away from him and find someone new.
2006-10-05 21:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by dzjoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off. If there is a chance of working things out your relationship doesn't have or need to be based on sex which is obviously what is happening.
2006-10-05 21:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by shane m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I'm no expect hear but it sounds to me like he wants his cake and eat it to. how can you love someone and then say oh it might work later. if i were you i try and get over him sounds like he wants to play and if it don't work out you well be there waiting .that's not fair to you you deserve more then that go find someone that well love you and teat you the way you deserve to be treated good luck i no love hurts hang in there but be fair to you
2006-10-05 21:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by lonley1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are settling for what he wants, if you think u are better than this (which u should be) don't be so quick to sell yourself short, believe me he's weighing his options right now probably trying to set something up with someone else to see if they want him and if they don't then he still has u on hold. don't be so quick to make it about him let it be about u sometimes.........
2006-10-05 21:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're putting out then there's no need for a relationship. Move on and get someone who deserves you.
2006-10-05 21:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well see someone else, just once. after ur date look back and see how it felt. was it akward- or did u enjoy it. if u enjoyed it then u have every right to move on.
2006-10-05 21:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋