you've got to follow you heart and if you really want him then go and get him. she should be over him. if you are a real good friend to her just let her know right away that you plan to be with him if he feels the same way. it's been a year and he's completely free to date you. Just have to ask yourself if this will end your friendship with your friend. if she says no I still have feelings for him I want to be with him then you have to judge it for yourself. if she hasn't spoken about him she might be one of those girls that just want what they think is gonna be taken away from them or ya know what they can't have kinda thing. you have to think do you have feelings for this guy? do you have anything in common, do you think you could be together for a while, or is he jus hot and kool to be around? you should make sure that it means something to you. but if your friend cries and says how badly she wants to be with him..... and you feel you can't live with the guilt, then don't do it. you gotta figure out what's more worth it to you but chances are if she wanted to be with your ex, she'd go for him, cuz girls are like that. so it's up to you.
2006-10-05 14:18:17
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are all friends and it was over a yr since this guy and your female friend broke up, well really you should talk to her about it and see how she feels.......... it shouldnt bother her after all that time. But as you are asking the question you are, maybe you know she will be unhappy about it. I guess it all depends on how much you value your friendships.
2006-10-05 14:17:14
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answered by tassie 3
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yes if it was a year ago why not give it a chance, talk to your friend to see if she minds. If hse dosen't have feelings for him anymore she would be okay with it, if she has a problem with it then she probably still like him.
2006-10-05 14:11:09
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answered by slai171 2
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I know you might think you like this guy, but please try to not get involved with him in a romantic way. Though he is your friend's ex, it can cause a whole lot of drama and unecessary complications!
2006-10-05 14:08:05
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answered by LibraT 4
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You can't get with him your friends ex is off limits put yourself in her shoes and she started dating one of your exes you would be upset about it. The ex is always off limits.
2006-10-06 01:07:54
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answered by drea g 2
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who cares what your friends think if they dont support you then they aren't very good friends and just go for it girl! ASK HIM OUT!!!!
2006-10-05 14:09:34
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answered by leesh!! 2
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dint do it friends forever it would crush her even if she says it okay she dint care she does dint you watch all those movies like this.
2006-10-05 14:09:41
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answered by Dakotah D 3
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talk to your friend first, make sure shes ok with it
2006-10-05 14:11:11
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answered by sunshine&rainbows 2
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talk to your friend about it if she's your friend she should understand
2006-10-05 14:07:38
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answered by Hailey :) 2
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respect your friend
Jesus loves you
2006-10-05 14:08:04
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answered by Jon 2
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