people say I'm pretty but i think I'm ugly does any one else have this problem?

Question

its mostly because i dont have a boyfreind never had one im 15 never been kissed i get some attention from guys but only ugly ones

Answer 1

Why worry about it, your going to find a guy whose going to think you are beautiful! I always thought i was ugly but my husband tells me how beautiful i am every day. he will just lay there and watch me sleep, when i wake up he tells me how beautiful I am. Love is not really blind

I bagged the right one!

Answer 2

I remember feeling like that and having low self-esteem when I was a girl. I used to walk with my head down so people could not look at my face. Looking back now, I was silly. I look at old pictures and see that although I may have had some bad days and hard times, I was really cute. Now I am a grown woman and I know that I am beautiful on the inside and outside. People have always told me I was pretty too. I used to even have talent scouts looking for new models approach me every now and then. Us women--we always find something to be unsatisfied with. Now I am trying to lose about 10-15 pounds. Then, I will be happy again. I love my shape. I am slim & curvy but I am more thick than skinny. Lately though, I have really had the munchies. If I find out I am pregnant, I will faint. Hopefully, it's the weather or season or something...I hope I get more control of my munchies soon.

Answer 3

If you are feeling insecure ask yourself whether you are comparing yourself to known celebrities - that's a bad habit that should be broken. It's like this - just as soon as a guy thinks he's seen a girl that "defines" beauty another one pops up and then there is a new standard - so comparisons are a losing game. But you're not alone in this.

My girlfriend has feelings like yours, mainly because her ex-husband told her she was ugly all the time to prevent her from getting out from under his thumb and becoming independent. I just reassure her all the time and tell her that our thing is not about a Playboy Bunny contest - that I'd flunk the "Playgirl" test and that other things are more important than looks, but that she's cute in her own peculiar way that I find to be beautiful. Slowly she's regaining her self-confidence.

Answer 4

I'm 30 years old; and didn't get my first kiss until I was 14 years old; and I was/am a pretty woman... but, I wanted to just take my time. Take your time... you're going to get all kinds of attention from people, but, that does not mean that their intentions are good. You are going through that teenage phase trying to find yourself; and you're going to often feel unattractive, but, you'll get over... it's just a teenage thing. Just because you haven't kissed a guy or don't have a boyfriend, does not mean you're ugly. Take your time; and enjoy your teenage years... there's so much more to life than worried about whether or not your ugly or pretty.

Answer 5

relationship is not a basis of beauty. that's where ugly people base beauty, but you should know for yourself if you are pretty. you have a mirror, look at yourself there. but since you're 15 i don't think you would understand what i am trying to say. maybe when you get older i hope you would ponder about the thought that beauty should not be based if you have a boyfriend or not. goodluck. besides, 15 is too young.

Answer 6

i have a problem similar to that. trust the other people who say your pretty. and believe in that. and you're so young! you don't need a boyfriend or a kiss yet. you still have your whole life ahead of you! you will be fine. just look in the mirror and tell yourself "the girl looking back at me is beautiful" and eventually you may come to believe it. don't fill your head with arrogance. just try and be mroe confident. i hope i helped.
one time a couple days ago i discovered that my crush liked someone else who happened to be on my football team. i thought she was so much prettier than me that i megan to lose confident. then my friend helped raise my spirit.
it worked for me. just think you are priceless. it's not on the outside that counts. i seriously hope i helped because this worked for me

Answer 7

lol it's okay. i am turning 16 years old, i am in the track team and stronger than most kids in the varsity football team. i have (iight im bragging a little) body overall. i get mad attention from girls, but i've never been kissed either. every girl that i actually want to go out with (which has been like 2 ever in highschool) has said no. ): so my point is, don't think about it too much and just focus on your future.

Answer 8

when I was your age, I thought the same thing. Don't worry, have you heard that saying, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder?"
My Dear, as you get older, self-confidence will come along, the more you are around people, like having a job or when you join groups, you won't be so self-conscience. Just have fun and focus on that, and real people will focus on you and not your looks!
That's what I think, and in my experience.
Go get 'em!!!!!!

Answer 9

Yes all my life I just don't see it.but I don't care.That is good right now you don't like boys ,need to get your education then a career get your life going the then if you want then start thinking about men.If you do what I write you will never have to ask a person for nothing.This is what I told my children as they were growing up.

Answer 10

Your normal we all think we r not pretty at one time or another,,, be happy that your 15 and the way u r better then being 15 and a mom