Serious question. Just wondering...no particular reason. With the two serious relationships I had, I was the one to reach down and put the guy's penis in. Just wondering if this is what everyone else does to...or does the guy usually do that?
Haha, what made me think about this is that when people are having sex on tv, this aspect is never involved. They make it seem like the penis magically goes right in.
2006-10-05 13:55:48 · 20 answers · asked by it'sjustme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually I do it if I'm on top but the man does if it's doggy style. Half the time if I'm doing missionary, I'm tied up and can't. Sometimes I just wiggle around until it slips in. This is all in the unlikely event that i'm actually having straight sex.
2006-10-05 14:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a preference between you. Guys like it when the female puts it in because it feels good when you're already touching it with all those nerve endings on their penis. But depending on how skilled the guy is, some can put it in without hands. But ususally I put it in when we are having issues initially putting it in then I'll do it. But it's up to you guys....
2006-10-05 14:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have control issues and want to do everything, while at the same time, some guys prefer a woman who takes charge. Bottom line is, as long as it gets in, it doesn't really matter who puts it there.
2006-10-05 14:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by 2"CUTE"2B30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guide it in. If you've ever watched Queer as Folk (aired 2000-2005) they almost always show that part. Obviously they don't show genitalia but they show as much as they can of that aspect. I respect that. They also alway show them unwrapping a condom and putting it on, which is so awesome.
2006-10-08 10:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He usually does, though I beat him to it once in awhile.
As for the 'automatic docking' procedure in the movies, we actually tried this and achieved penetration after about ten tries. This is a lot harder with the girl on top.
2006-10-05 14:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, luckily for me, most of the guys I have been with just moved their hips a little bit and it would slide in. When it didn't, it depended on me, him, our moods, how much teasing he wanted to do, how much teasing I was wiling to take to decide which of us would put it in.
2006-10-05 13:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by sweets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way and somethings it does seem like magic!
2006-10-05 13:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We both do, I think its just a matter of who thinks "its so time" first.
And yeah, TV makes it look like magic.
2006-10-05 13:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Chanel T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While either way works well - having a guiding hand is always nice
2006-10-05 13:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by rouble ( 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put it in. Alot of guys kinda fumble around, which is why the woman will do it.
2006-10-05 14:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋