Ok I sat in the same spot at work for months. I recognize the same people I see a lot. This one guy I noticed because I did think he was cute but he's way to young. So that was that. He never said hello or I never felt looked my way. But one day out of the blue I turned around in the cafeteria and he gave me this really big smile. My outfits for the summer have been a little low cut. But I wear them with jackets over them. This particular day it may have been a little more low then usual but not to bad. A couple of days went by and he looked at me and smiled again. But then a week went by and anytime I'd happen to catch his gave he just gives me a serious stare. One day this was my fault. I has a low cut shirt on and I was bending to get something out of my purse I looked up and he had his head totally turned just staring at my chest. This is my fault now that he looks at me this way. He must think I'm easy or something. But I'm not at all!!! And since that day I haven'
2006-10-05 13:53:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and since that day I bent over and he stared I haven't had anything low cut on. Everyone that knows me says I don't look slutty but of course they know me. I read somewhere that if you bend over with a low cut shirt and you get harrassed it's your fault. I'm not saying he's harrassing me. But these weird looks. And he even one day did this and then the guy he was with turned back to look at me. He had a smile on his face. So why did he smile in the first place not because he thinks I'm attractive but all the low cut shirt right? I don't think I'll ever wear another low cut shirt in my life!! I want people to look at me because they think I'm pretty not for that reason!!!
2006-10-05 13:56:44 · update #1
If a guy really likes you or is interested in you they will make it known. Not just a few smiles. Forget about the fact that he smiled at you or didnt because of your top. Anyway wearing low tops does not make you easy. Sleeping around makes you easy. Get out and start chatting to guys and meet someone.
2006-10-05 13:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Teresa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have the wrong opinion of you, but that is not your fault. You are entitled to wear whatever it is that you would like. It is his fault for having his mind in the gutter. To answer your question again tho, I would say it was the shirt(s).
2006-10-05 13:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by dmoss2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was just the low cut shirt. Yes, he probably thinks your "easy." If you don't want to be perceived that way, then wear a sweater. It's winter now anyways.
2006-10-05 13:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by bebeeangeldust 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it was probably the low cut shirt but then again it could be somethin else
2006-10-05 13:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Peyton J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your work time for work and private life private.
2006-10-05 13:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF ITS NOT FOR SALE YOU SHOULD NOT ADVERTISE IT. WHAT ELSE IS THE GUY SUPOSE TO THINK IF YOU GOAROUND WTH THEM HANGING OUT ALL TIME ESPECIALLY AT WORK. DIDN'T YOU MOM EVER TELL YOU HOW TO DRESS FOR WORK?
2006-10-05 14:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah , guys like ****. he prolly thinks your gay. just flash him
2006-10-05 13:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a weirdo.
2006-10-05 13:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by sexygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋