hi all my 9 year old child has come home from school today saying that another child at the school was nasty?

Question

in one of the school bathrooms where she was changing her diaper bacouse she has to were them all the time do i belever her or not what do i do next

Answer 1

some kids do eed to wear diapers, and the school probably knows already. i knew a kid who was born with no bladder and had nothing to stop the flow of pee. he had to wear diapers all the time. i did not care, he could ot help it and he was no diffrent from the rest of the kids.
it is not nasty, just a part of life for some people

Answer 2

This is a discipline issue if your daughter was made fun of while she changed her diaper.

First I would go to the teacher after talking with your daughter to make sure she is giving you all the facts about what happened. It would be up to the teacher at that point to have a talk with the other student.

This should be the end of it for you. If it happens again, then it is a time when a meeting between you, the teacher, both students and the other student's parents to get to the bottom of what is happening. Again, this should be the end of it.

If not then I would escalate it to the principle and higher if necessary.

Another thing. You need to teach your daughter to try to be more descrete in changing her diaper. If she can't find a private stall in a restroom then arrangements should be made to go to the nurses office or a counselor's office or some other more private place to change. The school should be accomodating with this, especially if your daughter is being teased about it.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Speak to the teacher...send her a note with the child tomorrow and also the reason for the need for the diaper. No child should suffer from this humiliation. Get to the bottom of it immediately and call the parent if necessary...kids can be very cruel.

Answer 4

actually there are children much older than potty training that have to wear diapers to school. it is probably a child who is not mentally handicapped enough to go to the restroom on their own, but not efficient enough to know what to do with a soiled diaper.

the second guess would be maybe the child in the restroom was much younger and on medications that caused a loose stool, and parents send their children to school because they have no one to watch over them during the day while they work.

the child could also have IBS-diarrhea type.

you never know.

bottom line? talk to the school NURSE not the teacher.

good luck.

Answer 5

I don't know if i'm buying your question.{I read all of your other ones that you posted previously,by the way} and besides the bad spelling ....you don't come off as a parent of a 9 yr. old and a 12 yr. old. It would seem if you really had children with health issues..you would seek professional help(not in yahoo Q&A).

I call bogus.

Answer 6

You should do something about it...talk to her teacher or principal. If you don't do anything right now, next time your child won't tell u anything cos she might think it's useless. Children seldom tell lies unless being taught too. You're her mom, do something abt it...i would.

Answer 7

I would talk to the teacher first. You don't want to make any assumptions. Many times when kids come home with a story like that, there are two sides to every story.

Answer 8

Speak with your childs teacher and find out what's going on. I'm hoping that it's not the opposite that they were saying that to her. I hope all works out.

Answer 9

Hey ya! I would go to the school and speak to them! And ask them if they can keep eye on her or something the school should understand that you care about your child and they should make sure it dont happen again!

Answer 10

talk to the teacher. if it continues go to the princable. and if it don't stop, then call the board. the next step will be a lawyer.