She's beautiful, talented, smart, funny.... she's everything I'm not. I hate love. I love her with such a passion I could put into poetry that would make you cry; at least everyone but her. I tried to be compassionate, friendly, and caring but all to no avail. One of her friends told me to give up, that "she's not worth it". I'm starting to feel that way.
I love her soooo much,, and I know I should probably move on, but I can't. For starts, all the other "fish in the sea" will be my friend in an instant, but none will ever be romantically inclined. When I move on, there's nobody! I hate moving on, I've done it too much. it's one thing to move on after a short or long relationship, but not after just loving her. I can't move on.
If I lose her, I've got nothing. NOTHING!!!!! The fish in the sea metaphor is crap in my life. I want her, I need her, I said I like her, but natta. what can I do? Do I persevere and continued this Bunker Hill with her, or have a broken heart?
2006-10-05 13:37:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, you are border line stalking her now. If she doesn't want to be with you, you can't MAKE her. You need to move on because what you are describing isn't love, it's infatuation. She isn't interested in you and the way you are acting is probably pushing her even further away. MOVE ON!
2006-10-05 13:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is really crappy like that I'm afraid. four months ago the man i was engaged to, the man I believed was the one I would spend the rest of my life with out of the blue tells me he does not love me anymore. I was crused. I missed a week of work because I could not stop crying and throwing up from being so upset, I lost ten pounds. I even got on an anti anxiety because I couldn't focus at work without it. Soon after, I found things to keep me busy even if it was just babysitting my nehpew, still it was hard to keep my mind on track and off of him. the first month was really hard. I wanted to die because I believed that without him, I had nothing and there was no point in being alive if I had nothing. I haven't found any one to replace him with but I've discovered I love being single and doing my own thing. It's really hard to get past the initial feeling that without them you have nothing, but that is amazing because you only have up to go. I'm doing great now, not looking for a relationship and not crying over my last one. If it didnt' work out it was for a reason and though impossible to believe right now eventually you will move on, but take this time to learn how great you are not how great she is, and find out your good qualities, soon enough you will find someone who will appreciate those. Just hold on, I won't tell you it's easy because it's not you have to find something that keeps you sane and stick with it untill your heart heals.
2006-10-05 13:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by curious_and_hopeful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let yourself have a broken heart for two weeks. I mean really let it out. Cry. Write bad poetry. Then check in with yourself again. If you're still feeling like this, seek counseling to help you over this hump.
2006-10-05 13:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, give them space and love them from afar and move on yourself. No sense in waiting for something that may or may not happen. Life is meant to be lived as best you can.
2006-10-05 13:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! you really do LOVE her. Tell her that you love her and try to tell her that can she be your gf. Never try, never know. you should try. I feel so sorry for you. if you don't want to move on then don't move on.
I bet you are good at poety, sorry that's nothing about this thing. well, you should try. Good luck!
2006-10-05 13:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life does go on, put one foot ahead of the other. Eventually, you will get through it!!! She is not the only woman on earth!!! Move on!!!
2006-10-05 13:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her! tell her u like her again.... tell her u cant move on... SHOW her the softy in u! tell her that u just want to go out as friends for now but then see if it can go somewhere... every relationship starts out as friends
2006-10-05 13:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as stupid as it sounds you sound just like me my bf kinda just ended it but only because his to busy for a relationship and i just cant move on this is just crap :( we should hate love together lol....
well if u need to chat dreamchick814@hotmail.com
2006-10-05 13:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start thinking about you and not just her when you get ready to move on you will you have to do it on your time not anybody elses
2006-10-05 13:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by southern angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to move on..
2006-10-05 13:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋