I waited for a guy to get out of jail. All along he accused me of seeing other guys (I wasn't), but then I went to the night club where he was working (unannounced) and caught him with another female. What should I have done?
2006-10-05 13:34:14 · 25 answers · asked by laedeb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men(all) in prison accuse their spouse or girlfriends of cheating. It's normal for them. But in reality its the devil that eats at their lonely brains. Men are like little boys at times or i should say "babies" they need alot of attention. Seeing him with another female at the club only brings out the question "trust". Do you think you can trust him to have him continue working at the club? I know from many many years of experience being with my husband now for 8 years and out of the 8 years 5 of them spent away, and he was starving for sex all the time. But it's a violation for a man to touch or kiss another woman if taken. I would have taken the biotchhhh outside whipped her azzzzz, then I would have taken care of his azzzzzz when he got home. There he would find his clothes and his ring in a trash bag cuz it seems that he wants to hang with trash then he should go be with the trash. Him and all his belongings. Let him know you are serious. If he does it once he will or most likely do it again. Talk to your mind, then talk to your heart. You are the only one that can decide what to do. If you get back with him then it must have been just fate, for you both to be together. If not then it really wasn't meant to be.
Good Luck and keep that Chin up at all times, never look down!!!!!!
2006-10-05 13:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk! I can only imagine that you feel you wasted your time waiting on him. I'm so sorry that happened to you. You are right to let him go, and although it's not nice and I condone it, if you spit in his face, I'd look the other way.
2006-10-05 20:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooo you're not wrong for letting him go.
You are wrong for not letting him go when he was accusing you of being with other guys, ( if you really wasn't). Then again, I guess if you had been unfaithful you should have let him go , if you wasn't satisified with him.
2006-10-05 20:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy like that isnt worth your time! You did the right thing by leaving him!
2006-10-05 20:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should kick his a$$ to the curb.. Seriously he doesn't even know how to be loyal to his girl... Be single and find a better man because he def isn't worth your time
2006-10-05 20:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should have let him go because he obviously didn't love you enough to miss you when he was in jail so, why should you keep seeing him after he disrespected you in such a matter?
2006-10-05 20:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by icanskate411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what you did....it's what are you going to do now.
You were faithful when you didn't have to be.....and look at what you got for your trouble?
Leave him behind in your dust and start a new life for yourself.
2006-10-05 20:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I WAS YOU I WOULD HAVE WENT IN THERE WITH ANOTHER GUY AND WALKED RIGHT BY HIM.. GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP.. U CAN DO BETTER
2006-10-05 20:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by syreenafuentes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ALWAYS the people who DO NOT TRUST...who cannot be trusted...
And he just proved that aspect of the human condition.
Hopefully, you don't live with this person...
2006-10-05 20:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you did the right thing by cutting him loose ... good girl you get sticker and a coupon for two to see 'Fearless'....don't forget the popcorn....
2006-10-05 20:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋