How do i get my 2 year old son too stop grabbign girls boobs?? my ex-boyfriend his father taught him that now he wont stop and he keeps askin why im getting bigger and itell him hes having a lil sister and he says no dady just says ur getting fat and bigger boobies...wat should i do??
2006-10-05 13:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by Amber E 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
don't make a huge deal out of it and tell him no when he does this. Then when your son is not in earshot tell your ex what an idiot he is
2006-10-05 13:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by megamom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children learn by mimicking, so dont blame the child for his behaviour as he has no idea what he is saying anyway. Just remove the offending hand and say.....no. I would tell the father that he is teaching his son to be abusive and to get lessons in parenting with you. Make arrangements for yourself....so if father doesnt follow through, at lest YOU will have the skills to cope and minimise the damage he causes. Kids dont come with a manual but parenting skills can be learnt...call a Parenting Hotline for more info.
2006-10-05 20:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids that age like the attention. If he is getting attention when he talks about boobs he will continue to do it. It is working for him. When he talks about it don't give him any feedback (ignore it). And it is best if you walk into another room, turn your back to him, or put him into another room. Don't talk about it because then you are giving it too much creedence. A child will do what ever brings him attention, so stop. If he grabs your boobs then you must address it briefly with: " I do not touch you and you should not touch me". If he does it again. Grab his arm firmly and ask him "do you like this". It make a connection between him touching you and you touching him. Kids that age do things without realizing what they are doing. Like biting. Until a child gets bit he does not really know what it is. He can bite but he does not make the connection that it is unplesant. Help him make this connection then drop it. I bet it goes away.
2006-10-05 20:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discipline him. I would smack his hand pretty hard. Don't even start on the "spanking is evil nonsense". It works great on those who are too young to understand time-outs, with no permanent negative effects.
What does have long-lasting negative effect is *verbally* abusing a child. That is a truly horrible thing to do.
Regarding the "touching is bad" post: ignore it at all costs! Touching is not bad. Its absolutely vital to your childs mental well-being that you feel comfortable touching each other. That should be obvious.
2006-10-05 20:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll out grow it...THE MORE YOU MAKE A BIG DEAL...the MORE he'll do this...TRUST me!! Our 2.5 yr old was yelling out to women.."Hey nice boobs!! Nice ***!" (he hears daddy say it to me all the time...) We realized the more we told him NOT to say it...the more he would!! It's a phase and some other new thing will come along and shock you... Now our son...likes to spit...something he saw on a movie!
2006-10-05 20:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first slap his daddy 2nd explain to him that when most women get bigger they have a baby growing in them and that his father has no idea what hes talking about hes just being mean
2006-10-05 20:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids are taught things and parents and people
around them think it sounds cute !!! but it only
hurts the child, come-on-grown-up's !!!!
2006-10-05 20:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by koko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a big deal out of it, but remove his hand and say i don't like to b touched there...
2006-10-05 20:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋