Every boy goes for girls that are short and skinny-blonde hair, flat tummy, teeny-tiny feet. I am 66 inches tall with curvy hips. I am a brunette w/ some weird color of eyes that always change colors. My stomach is never flat unless I skip a meal. And I wear a size 10/11 in women's shoe.
Nobody likes me just because of those qualities and it never has been easy for me to just get out there and start life being liked. None of the girls at my school even want to be friends. I noticed that all of the boys in my classes go for all the other girls and they look straight past me like I am just not even there.
Sometimes it just makes me cry. I really want to be like everyone else. Be asked to dances, have straight hair- have a boyfriend and tons of friends. Or at least have a social calendar.
Or maybe I just don't realize that it is just time to give up all hope.
2006-10-05 13:18:10 · 15 answers · asked by Watermelon Punch 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like you! Try a flat iron for your curly hair (the ones with ceramic plates work awesome), always wear a smile and people will smile back, be confident, know you are beautliful and others will see it too, realize you don't need friends that like you for your shoe size, waist size, hair etc... You need only those who like you for you!
2006-10-05 13:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your problem lies in the way you posed the question, "Why do I HAVE to be alone".
You don't "HAVE" to be alone - one can only choose to be alone or not. You may not realize this now, but NOT EVERY "boy" goes for "girls that are short and [have] skinny-blonde hair..." People may not like you for being tall or for being a brunette, but I'd bet people WOULD like you for being funny or kind or smart even.
Being sociable when you're not used to doing so is never easy. So, my advice to you is to discover what you enjoy doing (i.e., playing music for example). Then, start a club at school to talk with others who share what you're passionate about. Don't worry about what the girls in cliques think of you. And don't get hung up on whether boys are paying attention to you. What they think of you isn't important - how you think about yourself is!
Be yourself and love yourself. When you choose to be your own best friend, you will begin to attract others who wish to be your friend. If you don't love yourself, then who will?
Finally, don't give up hope - you'll probably hate this suggestion, but talk to your parents. They can give you sound advice on how to cope with what you're going through. Just don't give up all hope, and know that your family loves you unconditionally.
Good luck....
2006-10-06 00:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by BooValu2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to a place of my world sis, i want a boyfriend myself,boys seem to want a fasion doll look of a girl,with brains,and defentlaty take home to(beep) u know, Yeah im never fit for a guy,Im a 20 yr old that is mentaaly-retarded and just ur average dog drooler to most boys of my kind of town,school,and job to as uasal, I cant wait for the day ill get a guy who is truly kind to me around my age or 3 years older or younger but right now all i have is boyse in my dream which is ok but sading to feel regeted as an outsider but im glad im not the only one i mean there are others that are others that are far more in dying need then getting a boyfriend and trying to fit in,good-luck sweetie,Christie.
2006-10-06 20:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER GIVE UP HOPE NEVER EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I feel partially what u feel ( the whole boyfriend thing ). Its like most of my friends get asked out by boys but i only had 1 bf. Im not a brunette or anything and neither r my friends but i jus guess i dont look good enough for them ( boys can be weird in what type of girl they want these days they probably dont even knw all they knw is looks is more important than personality ). if i cant gets boys at my school to like me enough that they will go out wit me than i dont see the point in tryin to go to a friends party so i dont but im not lettin that hold be back. Dont get ur hopes down. right now im jus focusing on my grades but i still think about boys ( im always lookin for a cute boy thats nice funny smells good and is smart ). When i get a bf is when ever i get a bf, when u get a bf is when u get a bf. u jus hav to be patient. ur time will come when it comes sum boy will like u for who u r and not jus ur looks remember no one has their looks forever no matter what they do. everyone gonna hav to get old and wrinkley one day.
P.S. online dating is dangerous
2006-10-05 20:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl142 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to loose hopes, if u lack in matters of looks, try enhancing ur look which eer way you can, dare to experiment new things dont follow ur old daily rotine..... i am sure you must be good at somethings let people notice it i bet some one will ask u for a date just because of ur qualities.....
2006-10-05 20:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by m9rocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I am so lucky I dont have to go through that!!! I am in the time of my life where nothin could go wrong. I think stuff will turn out for u later in life just wait and see. Cant tell u anything more.
2006-10-05 20:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by ღimd14uღ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never give up hope, there is someone for everyone, my wife had an affair, after almost 19 years of marriage, and left me with 4 kids, I am now divorced, God will bring that special one in my life, I pray and trust him, and your special one will come too, one day.
2006-10-05 20:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet there is nothing wrong with your looks. but you really are showing me bad things about your inner you. you don't want boys in your life. get some knowledge. who knows in college you will find your other half dwelling from the same road. and when you do, love will prevail. don't be so eager to give yourself away, choose the right thing and fix yourself first. there is nothing wrong with a tall girl, long legs and beautiful eyes.
2006-10-05 20:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Eryc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is okay chick just do you be your self they ll come eventually give your self time there is someone out there for you good luck another tip i s try to dress better name brands work people will be like ooh i like that shirt or them shoes that helps you make friends.......also where clothes that show ya shape you don't have to wear name brand i buy cute tops from walmart and people be like where u get that 7.49 yup I'm out one and if you need some to talk to you can message me through yahoo answer much love 1~
2006-10-05 20:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by Tired_of _the_games 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi am marco and i like ur personality and what u wrote
i wanna to chat with u online
am online now on yahoo messenger
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or MSN hotmail messenger
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add me am waiting u
2006-10-05 20:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by Marco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋