Women what are you looking for in a thirty something man?

Question

I'm divorced with kids. I'm in the best shape I've been in in twenty years, own my house, CPT in the army guard, and have a great paying job in the civilian world. The women I know tell me I'm very good looking. So why is it that I can't fined a good woman?

Answer 1

There are divorced men with kids and good looking. I thought they were all gone. I'm in the same boat and its not easy to get back into the dating scene. Its not like when we were teens.
By the way I am a good woman with teens and I think you are probably too far away for me :(

Answer 2

maybe you aren't giving off the right signals, or maybe you aren't recognizing the signals that are sent to you. also, you might think about how you're defining "a good woman" and prioritize what is really important to you and be willing to compromise on the things that are superfluous.
also, check that you aren't "over-selling" yourself. women aren't like men - you can't tell us how great you are and then we think you're great (I love how that works with men though, btw) pay attention to what she has to offer and show that you appreciate her for the person that she is.

Answer 3

That's the point...lot's of warm bodies out there and no substance.

Go to a singles gathering at a local church...it's a better place than a local bar, or hangout where people don't become themselves after drinking.

Hang in there, you'll make it!

Answer 4

You talk about yourself. You, you, you. Here's a hint. GOOD LUCK FINDING A GOOD WOMAN!

Answer 5

First of all, you should know what type you want to meet and go on with.
if you don't know what you want, no one can help you.

good luck!

Answer 6

perhaps your not looking in the right place.