I like this guy that almost EVERY girl my age in my church likes. They only like him because he's hot (which I TOTALLY agree with), but I like him because he's a great Christian, he's nice, sweet, and funny. I talk to him a little, but not a lot. I've made eye contact with him before, but only for, like, one second. How can I get him to like me? I want to be sweet and modest, but still get him to notice me. DON'T tell me to be myself (I know that's the best thing, but I can't be myself when I'm around him[I'm just too nervous]). And DO NOT tell me to wear a super revealing, low-cut top and a mini skirt so short that it reveals the bottom of my butt cheeks. Please help me!
2006-10-05 13:09:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to make an effort you need to over come your fears and get out of your comfort zone or nothing will happen. start by talking to him a bit more graually making the conversations longer and longer. find out what u have in common what he likes and what he doesn't like in a girl. don't go in thinking that everything is going to be a fairy tale, don't get to hung up on him cause he'll feel that and play with it. after you have spoken to him a bit more then ask yourself if you still like him the way you once did. good luck girl have faith....
2006-10-05 13:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by sammy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will conquer him if you are assertive enough. The first objective is to get yourself talking with him. Easiest way to do that, invite him to a more exclusive church group with a smaller size. Be an active enough converser, self-assured, and you'll be to die for in the eyes of any intelligent guy. And don't worry too much if it isn't your normal character. All the facades will melt away, but it takes brains to put them up in the first place. If he's worth keeping he'll like you no matter what character you bring out, because he'll know you.
2006-10-05 13:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by minstrel_of_munificence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be so nervous. Talk to him more. Act natural, don't force anything out.
But it's him you want to like you and it's him that knows whether or not he likes you.
So, I suggest becoming friends with him first before you try anything... then try a little harmless flirting see his reaction... then make it up as you go along.
Only my suggestions, but oh well.
2006-10-05 13:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kerz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to get up the nerve and go talk to him. Just talk and start from there. It is like any friendship in the beggining. You just have to learn what the other person is like. First of all you have to gather up all your courage and take the first step though.
2006-10-05 13:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by reprap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah you should be yourself. If you want him to notice you, your going to have to at least talk to him and not just give him eye contact. Show him that you don't just like him for his looks. It's always best to become friends then see where it goes. And if it's ment to be he'll like you too. :D I hoped that helped...even though I don't think it did.
2006-10-05 13:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have the same thing happening to me right now!And what I'm doing is trying to do my best and making him notice me, like things that I wouldn't normally do!
If you want to chat about this.........email me at dr.pepper47@yahoo.com!
2006-10-05 13:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Dr.Pepper 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be you, guys love it when you're layed back and cool. Someone they can talk to. Don't be afraid to talk to him and to tell him how you feel.
2006-10-05 13:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kenya J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
besically....do whatever you do best. Be a good christian and show him that you are after him for his morals and not just his good looks.
2006-10-05 13:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by JR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do some research, and find out what he likes. Then it should be easier to talk to him. he more you talk........the more he knows you.
2006-10-05 13:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
want to be sweet - start from a sweet smile :-)
never failed, trust me, trust yourself.
good luck, girl
2006-10-05 13:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋