how can i approach a girl if im shy?

Question

hi guys. i like this girl in my class and she sits 2 seats in front of me to the left. sometimes she turns around and looks at me. she also plays with her hair and doodles a lot. the one time she talked to me she said my name real long in a sweet voice. then she asked me who i had for math, and that kinda freaked me out cuz it was totaly random. anyways, im like 80% sure shes trying to get my attention. the problem is its hard for me to approach her cuz none of my friends are girls and im naturally shy- i cant even look her in the eye and i barely ever talk to anyone. plus the professor is always in front of us, and if i glance at her too often its very obvious and il feel embarrased for the rest of the year. This "pretending ur not there" is my biggest problem. My friends tell me that other girls like me and im buff too, so i konw i got the physical features. But socially speaking, im crap. Theres no way im askin my friends this question, so pls leave some responses guys

Answer 1

You have to practice talking to people, who cares if she's pretty. Besides a girl doesn't want to hear you talk, she wants to hear herself talk. What you should do is put aside your fear and take a chance. You say you're buff, what good is physical strength if you cannot muster enough mental and emotional strength to talk to a girl? What that means is that she is controlling the whole thing, be a man and take that control from her by asking her a question or two about totally random things, you don't wanna come on too strong so don't ask her out right off the bat. Let her talk, and respond with short answers, make eye contact, and after about five minutes of good conversation (you'll know if it's going well), ask her.

Answer 2

If she asks you something just answer. If she starts a conversation with you try to add some imput.
I'm shy and I'm friends with one of the most outgoing people I know... I have no clue how. But, talk to her!!!
Shy isn't going to get you anywhere. Suck it up and talk to her. Because if you don't do anything how are you going to get over being shy and how are you going to approach her?

Answer 3

just tell her, please. Here is my story. I met a boy once. We really had something. We were BOTH shy, so neither one of us said anything. He moved away. I got married. I don't talk to him anymore. I wouldn't have talked to him anymore if I had said something and things went wrong. So I said nothing and still ended up without him. Which is worse? Your heart getting a little bit broken from rejection or your heart getting broken because you can't stop wondering "what if"? Your best bet is to ask her to do something in a group, simple, or just tell her how you feel. At least then you have a 50/50 chance of being with her. If you say nothing, you have a 100% chance of not being with her.

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Answer 5

I am considerd by folks to be very attractive and I have been told that my looks intimidate men. I so wish that wasn't the case. I don't feel like that and I am a very friendly person and love to meet new people. It makes me sad that someone would not talk to me becuase of my looks. I am sure I can't be the only girl who feels this way. Just say hi. It can't hurt. Smile. Be friendly.

Answer 6

I used to be the same way...only with guys lmao. anyway. For the longest time I thought that I'd never get to be with anyone. So I stopped caring. And once i stopped caring I started to make lots of guy friends. No matter how hard it is you just have to relax. Yeah you like the girl, but try not to worry about what she thinks of you. Be yourself. that's the best thing you can do. :D

Answer 7

umm hi, i kno im not a guy, but i think u shuld just ask her out one day, like before an exam. u culd joke around about how you're gonna "fail this test" and ask her if she'ld wanna study with u. that way u culd meet her in a nice quiet place, like a coffee shop or something, and u culd really get to know her...u might want to meet her a little earlier though, that way uld have time to do the real studying later and uld be able to drool over her with no regrets during the "study" date. ;P

Answer 8

practice lookin her in the eyes, start small and increase the time. this will help you gain confidance and you'll see there's nothing scary about it. but it's not sure that she likes you just cuz she said your name playfully, or asked who ur tacher was. just relax, when she's around just be chill try to sit ina big conversqation between her and her friends, u kno like lil circles of friends? if you hear em talking bout sumthing you can relate to, then jump rite not but don't interrupt. remember be cool, think befor you talk so you don't screw up. don't complement her too much, or u mite scare her..depends on wat kinda girl she is. most important now, be cool, practice eye contact.

Answer 9

ask her shyly