Life sucks. The few friends that i have are practically just aquaintences. I suck at talking to girls, always have always will (never had a girlfriend in my life). I have to work like **** 100% of the time to prepare for a wrestling season that takes everything out of me. I am under a huge amount of pressure to get my already excellent grades higher. I just dont even feel like living anymore. It seems like just sucking it up doesnt work anymore. Every day is as redunant as the last, and being happy on the outside doesnt work.
2006-10-05 12:25:06 · 21 answers · asked by stpdgy4 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I hope you're prepared, because you are no doubt about to get a bunch of ridiculous answers... in my opinion, however, you should be tough... don't kill yourself.
2006-10-05 12:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, i know how you are feeling, my friend is going thru the same thing. I know it hurts, but please talk to a therapist, it really does help, and if you feel comfortable go on medication, they work, you're still young and things will happen and you may not like them, but I promise if you get over this, things will get better. just don't do it, A lot of kids are in the same position as yours, but you don't want to be a STATISTIC. So please, Having problems like this is kinda part of growing up, some kids have it easy, and some kids have a struggle, kinda what ur going thru. You tell yourself you'll be fine, and pray. Wrestling is second to who you are, it's an extracurricular activity, don't live ur life for other people, live it for yourself. I know its hard because of parental issues, but just give therapy a try first, you'll feel a lot better. And then things will fall into place and i'm sure you're a pretty good looking wrestler, you know girls love guys who wear those tight fitting outfits :-) you'll find a gal in no time. Hang in there!
2006-10-05 20:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by ilovehimalot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading your message makes tears come to my eyes. I have lived with a lot of depression but I know that there are anti-depressants out there to help me through the bad spots. Go see a Doctor.
You may be putting too much pressure on yourself. If you already get good grades, you are lucky. Settle for that. If wrestling isn't fun, don't do it. You may just need more time to rest.
When you finally reach the time in your life when you find a special someone, marry & have children, you will know what happieness is and why you were born.
Don't blow it!!!!!
2006-10-05 19:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by M. J. B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very overwhelmed and you are suffering from depression. I suggest that you seek professional help immediatly.
Everybody sometimes doesn't want to live, but in the end, they do. Life is so precious. Its one of the most precious gifts god has EVER gived to you. I know life is hard when you get older, but it is just how life works. You can start off by stop thinking about wrestling and your job. Start thinking about finishing school and doing maybe a more "easy" sport like basketball, tennis, etc. Your friends don't make up who you are either. You are who you are and should be proud.
I also know that it may seem hard to talk to girls, but that doesn't make you a loser for not talking to them. You will soon find someone who likes you for who you are.
I would consider you to try talking to a girl. Talk about how her weekend was? Talk to a girl who you can trust a lot, and is really nice to everyone.
Life doesn't suck, you just have to know how to control it and make something out of it. I know that its hard to, but you have to do it. Life is very precious, so treated like something valuable.
I also suggest that you talk to a counciler or seek professional help immediatly.
I hope everything goes well for you, and make a right decision, not to committ suicide.
You still have so much time in your life to make changes. Life gives you chances, so don't just throw them away.
Make the right decision, and everything will work out fine in the future.
2006-10-05 19:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Y!User 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are a great kid !!! Don't put yourself down !! My son was in wrestling, too... and I know how hard he worked. It was amazing to see him out there.
It isn't true that you "always will" suck at talking to girls. Some of the nicest guys I've ever known were a bit shy and found it hard to approach girls. Look around for girls that are not so "out there" and I'm sure you will find one who would love to help bring you out.
Just think... the right girl for you may be sitting home right now, thinking her life sucks, too. Find her, dammit!
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2006-10-05 19:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill for a while! commiting suicide is considered a sin against urself and is really bad and u would be putting ur self in more pain and the cause of more pain then u already are now. you need to talk to someone u trust about issues like this. Also this shouldn't be the place for u to ask qquestions like this. You need to think of all the problems u have and try ot find a solution to them then just trying to end them. becaue u can't but u can run from ur problems and right now u are running t find peace and u think the only way is by killing urself but thats not true. When i was in high school i had the sma ethught but i got over it. life sucka t times and is good at times. and it can bve very hard. but as humans we need to try to survive and learn from all of this. and not just take it upon us and kill oursleves. i hope this helps! PLEASE DONT KILL YOUR SELF! and make the right choice!
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2006-10-05 19:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by 【ツ】♥americandesi16♥【ツ】 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life is likely to become much better once you get through your teenage years with all the problems that goes with them. If you were to commit suicide you would never have a chance to enjoy your life in the future. Please talk to someone you trust and, if possible, see a doctor about the way you are feeling. Also, try to analyse what is causing you to feel so bad and try to change some of those things if you can. Good luck :)
2006-10-05 19:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried dating sites?blind dates?........If you think the job youve got now isnt working out for you why dont you just skip to a job you always wanted to do and enjoy.People are pressuring you because they think you are an excellent student.Well do you concerntrate on your job more then you would with a girl?cause right now im sure they are helping you out to set your courier in the future,Gf right now would probarbly interfear with your courier then you will end up with problems.Your doing great!!I just wish i was back in school,but i gave up my goals and became a caregiver for my nan,just passed away a year later,was so miserable and even ended up missing out on my years i could of achieved this and that.Now i got a bf i love him so much,he has a good courier and im a stayhome teen mum.:)
2006-10-05 19:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please hang in there.
I feel that way a lot too. I have been walking around saying to myself how much I hate my life. But you know, I am still not ready to give up.
You may not remember the old Peggy Lee song where she sings about "Is that all there is". She talks about how disappointed she is with life and in the end she says something like "People may ask if you do not like life, why don't you just end it all, to which I respond, Oh, no not me, I am not ready for that Final disappointment".
You sound young. There is much life ahead of you. Please hang in there. I KNOW it will get better for you. OK?
2006-10-05 19:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
killing yourself is kinda cowardly i wouldnt do it just cause when i die i wanna die having accomplished something but sounds like your in a pretty good place in life at least you have people around and have good grades and youre in wrestling just suck it up man dont be a wimp
2006-10-05 20:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by jebustheunkillable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no don't even think about doing it are you sure that your not just doing all these things for some-one else do it for yourself demand more in life instead of saying it sucks do it for yourself look what benefits are there from killing yourself your grades are good so that's a good start don't take notice of what people say like get grades higher do it for yourself don't kill yourself
2006-10-05 19:29:48 · answer #11 · answered by Surfer_69 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋