2006-10-05 12:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by katakito051177 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hi Hun! Yes! There is a way, one to deal with them. I see a therapist have been for 16 years. I was severly sexually, mentally and physically abused from the age of 2 to 21. If it wasn't for seeing a therapist I would be dead. I had stuff (issues) piled up over my head when I first started seeing a therapist I have waded through it and have gotten it down to butt level and it keeps going down al the time. If you really want to get beyond these issues you need to bring them up to a therapist and work through them until you understand what happened and why. Its helpful to know that why you were growing up your elders were suppose to be protecting you not hurting you. I hope you get the help you need. Talking to a theripist is very helpful. Take care! Hugs! Von
2006-10-08 08:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by bry7josh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not mainstream, but I used EFT (emotional freedom technique) to work through my trauma and issues. I cleared out a lot of stuff in just a few months that years of therapy hadn't helped. It involves tapping on acupressure points. It sounds too simple to be true, but it really works. Child abuse is hard to overcome. It really is pervasive into every area of your life.
Even though you had no control or responsibility for what happened to you then, the rest of your life is in your hands. You can make the choice to remain a victim, or to take back your life.
2006-10-05 20:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am a person who has been abused, physically, mentally, verbally and sexually. These things happened to me years ago, but I of course still think about it. I can relate with you and the only thing I can suggest is, forgive but don't forget. Think about it but don't dwell. Learn from it and don't let it live your life for you. Don't let it become a pattern in your life. Break the cycle before it can start.
2006-10-05 19:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by tanyahurt76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time he trys to abuse you have a knife with you and cut his balls off or tell me who he is and i will do it for you as all child abusers should be strung up by the balls and tortured with a slow pain full death but really if you are being abused report him and tell him that you are going to because prison inmates really love child abusers
2006-10-05 19:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the 5-O
2006-10-05 19:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave
2006-10-05 19:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who want children should be tested and licensed, like obtaining a drivers' license or pet license or gun license...
2006-10-05 19:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to people about it,dont let it wander in your mind.....
2006-10-05 19:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would help if you would go to a councelor
2006-10-05 19:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Leah P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore it, run away, and never look back :)
2006-10-05 19:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by Gorilla Man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋