Is it hard keeping them,paying attention to both of them
2006-10-05 12:17:41 · 12 answers · asked by Ruthie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its hard becuase both get jealous of each other and they might even get into a fight over you.
2006-10-05 12:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pre lives on 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know if this is exactly the answer you're looking for, but I am a Gay man, and was the "other man" for 21 years to my lover, who already had a husband. His husband loved me very much, and had no problem with our relationship. I asked them once, early on, if there wasn't any jealousy about me being in their marriage. They both responded that they loved each other so much, that no outside force could get in between them. They were totally confident in their love, and as a result had no problem "letting the love spill over" onto me. They had established ground rules which they followed, such as if one or the other was out with another boyfriend, they had to be home before dinner. That was their time together.
It was one of the best relationships I've ever had.
Eventually, they moved to the other side of the country, but we still keep in touch, and I'm close with both of their families.
So, you see, American hetero monogamy is not the ONLY model for a good relationship.
2006-10-05 12:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chose the one you like the best, because sooner or later either one will find out and maybe both of them will break up with you. plus that's mean, you are cheating on both of them!
2006-10-05 12:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a pain in the ***. I kept mixing up dates, names, and few other things :) I'd stick to one, so much more simple.
2006-10-05 12:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Ms. smarty pants, if you feel doing something like that is cute...well, in the end, you will find you will have no boyfriend. When you play.....you will pay!
2006-10-05 12:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes!you have to make sure they not going 2 find out bout eachother and a bunch of other crap!if u need more email me at amandal@yahoo.com!
2006-10-05 12:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give me the cuter one I'll juggle him with my husband and you will be fine
2006-10-05 12:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once more I shall utter: UNITE IN A TREESOME!!!
2006-10-05 12:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it feels like being a slut and i am not a slut and you shouldn't do that well it is your life you only have one chance you can't change the past and you will regret it.
2006-10-05 12:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that shiit wont happen to me
2006-10-05 12:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋