i like hanging out with guys more than girls cuz i think most girls pretend to be ur friend but then guys are more real about it. theyll hang out with u if they like u but theyll tell u to fck off if they dont. so my closest friends are guys and girls will always tell me im slut cuz they think i hang out with guys just to get thier attention but u no i have a boyfriend thats about to break up with me cuz girls tell him i flirt with my guy friends when i dont.
its making me mad and its ruining my relationships. should i stop hanging out with my guy friends and try getting along with girls? or should i tell those girls to get over themselves and look for a boyfriend that will accept i like hangin with more guys than girls? and no im not bio or gay. i just think r more cool to hang out with. PLUS!!!!!!!!!getting dirty in football rules!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-05 11:54:21 · 17 answers · asked by lothargrl_4_life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not wrong, but if they fall in love with you, its horribly sad. remember this, just because your friends is not a good reason to not go out with a guy. its stupid and sorta heartless. you cant gain anything if you dont take RISKS.
2006-10-05 11:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Cole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can put up with us sometimes hitting on you, then guys make great friends. We are a lot less demanding of your time and your emotions than girlfriends are. Plus we like having a woman's perspective on things. You might want a girlfriend or two though, for that shoulder to cry on. With some exceptions, we aren't quite as sympathetic to that sort of thing. It kind of makes us uncomfortable.
You need a man who is secure enough to handle your guy friends. Those friends may see things about him that any girlfriend would miss too. They'd be a more trustworthy judge of character. Find a guy who likes hanging out with you AND your guy friends!
2006-10-05 19:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Skippy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, most girls prefer the company of guys. So many girls are shady and most of the time girls will just talk behind your back anyway. Who cares what those girls think, you see how they are already talking crap about you. Stay friends with people who like you and won't judge you no matter what. Just be weary of guys intentions because sometimes they do just want to get some booty. Trust your instinct.
2006-10-05 18:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love guys. My friends are mostly guys because they aren't fake and they say what they mean you know? I also LOVE knowing their point of view on things. Like what they think is sexy or what they think about a situation. It's also the best feeling in the world when they have your back. It's like having a whole bunch of big brothers watching out for you. I remember one time this jerk was totally b*tchn' out on me and my friend Troy almost beat him up. I had to pull them apart although I wouldn't have mind him to get a serious beat down.
Girlfriends are cool too. I mean you can't exactly talk about periods, tampons, and boobs with guys. And girls are more fun to shop with and drool over hot celebrities with!
2006-10-05 18:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Hello,It'sMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong witht that at all, I find guys easier to maintan a friendship with because girls are so sometimey! But, it can not be a solid freindship if you are infactuated or sleeping with the guys. be careful of that because once you cross that line things will definately change. but, no there is nothing wrong with it at all. many women prefer to befreind guys rather than girls. take care
2006-10-05 18:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely need to look for a boyfriend that will accept you for who you are - and that is someone who enjoys the company of guys. That will take a very unusual, but very special guy, that trusts you and knows that he is always in your heart.
Good luck - for when you DO find him - he will be INCREDIBLE!
2006-10-05 18:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls are b1tches that talk behind your back, the guys were always cooler to hang out with. I felt more at ease and they werent so uptight. So, no its not.
2006-10-05 18:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by All I have to do is dream... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of my friends are guys, I have like 2 girl friends. Guys are just more layed back and don't really care and have no drama unlike girls who love drama.
2006-10-05 18:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word 4 them girls HATERS!!! they are mad cause you have a man and 2 be real they might want him 2 dump you 2 try 2 get with him!! hell no don't dump your guy friends 4 him if he love you then he should trust you if not then girl plenty of men out there would love 2 be with a girl who plays football!! GIRL JUST SHAKE THEM HATERS OFF!!!
2006-10-05 18:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by finenazfuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that some girls do hang out with more guys and theres nothign wrong with that.
2006-10-05 18:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Dustin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋