My bf and I had another petty arguement and he left w/o me knowing. He won't answer my calls but he i/m's me . He claims to be in Cali but the times don't match up or maybe I just don't want him to be there. Anyway , we had arguements before and he left for 2 hrs and came back. He has been gone from monday and today is thursday. Do you think he will come back ?? or do you think its over this time ? I love him to death and know we can work thru this because its petty. Am I wasting my time or should I keep pursing him ?
2006-10-05 11:53:09 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We love each other . Been together for a year
2006-10-05 11:57:21 · update #1
I've been sending emails and text messages to him , he knows i love him . He claims he is tired of the fights and so am i , but he says its done. he has said that before and came back but do you think this is really it or he'll come back after he cools down?
2006-10-05 11:59:41 · update #2
I haven't done anything.
2006-10-05 12:01:28 · update #3
You are going to make yourself sick with worry, get a hold of yourself. Now if he has not contacted you, why should you be bothered. give yourself a break, go out and have a good time, yes, it may be hard. May be you are reading more into this, then it needs to be, He may just want to clear his head. like you, thinking what to do, if the two of you are, really for each other, etc. So keep your cool, Time will tell, just do not do anything you will regret!
2006-10-05 12:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on him, if he knows that you two can work it out then he most likely will come back. Let him come back on his own, and then you may be able to work it out easier by giving him his space to think. That may be what he needed and he didn't tell you, and maybe this was his way of trying to think about it on his own terms. So tell him how you feel the good and the bad, and if he doesn't come back find someone better who cares about you and wouldn't leave because of a little argument. If he isn't taking your calls and only iming you then it may be over to him, but ask him and when you do make sure to tell to please be honest. Only time will tell if you are wasting your time or not, however; to me it sounds like you are considering if he left because of a small argument then he most likely isn't the guy for you. I hope this helps.
2006-10-05 12:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It not for me to say if you are wasting you time or not. If he has been gone for four days and he not answering your calls it does not look good. You do not what or who is doing if he comes back you have to decide if you can accept in time he been gone he could have cheated on you. Do you really want to be with somebody that runs a way from arguments? What if he leaves again? Do want to stay or leave? Up to you to decide just giving something to think about.
2006-10-05 12:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Disha 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may able to get a better person than the one who left you.
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2006-10-05 11:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hun..if this is a usual for him, this leaving and coming back thing...it's definately not worth it. they may be petty arguments, but they're probably not gonna stop, and he's probably gonna keep leaving like that. Honestly, i'm pretty sure when he's gone like that he's out havign sex with someone else...taking a "break"...in a sense,..and if that's really the case, then you know he's cheating on you like all the time, or he will! So he's definately not worth it.
2006-10-05 12:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by texascg008 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just back off and let him comeback if he wants. If you keep after him he Will string you on for a long time. He is probably trying to make you feel sorry. If you are sorry and in the wrong then say so if you are not them stop the i/ms and let him wonder why they have stopped. Good luck .
2006-10-05 11:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by anne04char 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hold you head high and move on Girl!!
2006-10-05 11:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by tofu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
leave his lame a--! you can do better hes out getting himself, some sweet cheery pie, your having a snocone
2006-10-05 12:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up, he won't face you. Move on
2006-10-05 12:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if you truly love him then keep pursuing him but if you don't truly love him then don't go for him
2006-10-05 11:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by haylea2006 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋