well, i am dating this guy, who is a bit controlling, really protective, yet not physically affectionate, who is learning how to show his care physically... he is a really great guy, i don't think we are going to last too much longer though... we argue alot, and i can't stand that, but he seems to be more nicer now days, after i told him i had feelings for his best friend..
his best friend is a true gentleman, he opens doors, he is respectful and generous... i dont' know him real well yet, but we have been hanging out more often (with my b/f of course) but i want to spend time with him alone... i am not a cheater, so that is out of the question...
i have impulse likes though... they guy i am with now is my longest relationship... and i am only 18, and i know sometimes my impules are just my hormones....
if you are wondering my b/f's bday is oct. 22
and his friends b/day is nov. 18
2006-10-05 11:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the true question,
what should i do???
2006-10-05 11:49:13 · update #1
I would venture to say that you are young...and that in most cases, you don't know what you really want yet....so why not take the chance and see about this other guy? are you afraid of hurting your current boyfriend? and if you don't think it is going to last anyway...then why are you continuing to see someone that you haven't enough interest in to believe that it will be long term? and what you have to remember....is that you are seeing the grass from the other side of the fence...and the saying goes the grass is always greener on the other side....meaning that things always look better when you aren't there....so you don't even really know what kind of guy this is...just be careful...because you could potentially be handling 3 people's hearts...
2006-10-05 11:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
controling is not a good thing do you want a man to think and choose for u or do you want to think and choose your self do what you want it your choice girl to be controled by some one it not a good way to have to live and in the in it will be you that looses plez choose wisely for you own health control your own life that even GODS will.
2006-10-05 18:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Heart-of-Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feeling for the other guy then you relationship with you existing boyfriend is over. move onto the other guy. now are you even sure he'll go out with you due to the fact that your with his friend. think about it.
2006-10-05 18:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by samlha83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young, but that is not an excuse. so think hard
2006-10-05 18:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do wat u want
2006-10-05 18:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋