when a guy says he loves u wat does it really mean??? and wat does it mean to be in love???
2006-10-05 11:46:48 · 15 answers · asked by peace l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask, then you are too young to know yet.
2006-10-05 11:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Im sure he doesnt mean it if you are still in mid school or high school. Everyone says they love you.. Because you dont really know what love is yet. But when you really do fall in love, Its a totally diff feeling that just a boyfriend. and its something you have to work hard for. He will be the first thing you think about when you wake up and the last thing you think about when you go to bed. You miss him even when your with him.. Because yuo know when he leaves its going to suck. You think about him all day everyday. You would jump in front of a bullet for him, Die for him. You give up your friends if they dont like him. And he does the same in return. If he said I love you and you guys havent been dating to long. Then you know its not true love, Its just puppy love. Me and my boyfriend didnt say we loved each other untill about 9 months after we had been dating. And its been a year and a half since then.
Good luck sweetheart.
2006-10-05 18:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a profound feeling of tender affection for or intense attraction to another. It is considered a deep, ineffable feeling shared in passionate or intimate interpersonal relationships. However, in different contexts, the word love has a variety of related but distinct meanings: in addition to romantic love, which is characterized by a mix of emotional and sexual desire, other forms include Platonic love, religious love, familial love, and the more casual application of the term to anyone or anything that one considers strongly pleasurable, enjoyable, or desirable, including activities and foods. This diverse range of meanings in a single word is commonly contrasted with the plurality of Greek words for love, reflecting the word's versatility and complexity.
Although clearly and consistently defining love is a difficult task, and often a subject of much debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't "love". As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more "pure" form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, though other definitions of the word love may be applied to close friendships in certain contexts.
2006-10-08 20:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy can say he loves you and not ask you for anything in return except hope for you to feel the same way,then it means what it says. Saying you love someone is just the verbal way of expressing how you feel about someone. When you are in love, you care for someone so much that you would give anything to make them feel the same and keep them in your life forever. Love is just an emotion that we want to express.
2006-10-05 18:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta love these open questions..........
What a guy says doesn't really matter - it's his actions that really count.
Does he treat you with respect? Does he spend time with you? Does he make sacrifices for you? Does he help you out when you need it? He is proud to be with you and be seen with you? Does he make you feel safe and warm inside?
If he does all those things AND say 'I love you' - THEN it means something.
2006-10-05 18:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, how old are you? at 15, I love you means I want to share my jacket with you. at 18 it means I want to go to the same college with you at 20 or older it means I want to marry you. under 15 it means I think you're cute. an awful lot of 12 year old think they are in love.
Is he patient with you? is he kind to you? is he proud to be around you? is he nice to you both alone with you and in front of his friends and yours? how does he treat your family and his? how abou his business/job? Love is treating someone better than yourself. It's giving them the extra meatball on your spaghetti even though you really wanted it. It's gong the extra mile for them when they can't do it themselves. it's going out of your way to do something nice for that person.
being IN LOVE is a different thing. It's putting that person's needs ahead of your own with no thought og am I going to get anything. no sex no kiss. no smile. it's appreciating them for the person they are. If a man loves a woman, he brings out the best in her without expecting anything in return and does nice things for her "just because". He's totally selfless. His patience with her is endless. He doesnt; envy anything she has or doesn't have. he isn't jealous of her or her past relationships. he's quick to forgive her. he LISTENS to her. (wow! I think I want tthis guy for myself!) He doesn't boast about his past conquest. indeed, they don't even matter anymore. he's found his perfect woman. in fact, he doens't really boast about anything. he's not rude and he doesn't seek to satisfy himself so the object of his affection he does't use her. again, he wants to help her and work for her benefit. he forgets if she wronged him. in fact, if she loves him too, she does all this. so the fights are pretty much a case of "we fought? I don't remember that! when did we do that?" he doesn't like doing anything bad. but he likes to do the good stuff--help her out by running errands hearing about the problems, making her load lighter. he'd protect her forever. he trusts her hopes she loves him too. and perseveres through the hard times. This guy knows how to stick it out!
the problem is that this guy may not realize exactly what love IS. most married COUPLES dont' know what love is. they mistake LUST for love. if this guy can honestly say that he does all this, then yes, he does love you. there are all different types of love. ask him what type he feels. personally, I wouldn't be with a guy who didn't feel this type of love.
2006-10-05 19:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess no one knows wwhat is really love.Everyone loves differently in there own way.Love is not selfish,it does not envy.Love is everything good.When your in love you should end up being a better person.Then you will know that your in love and that the love is real.
2006-10-05 18:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Krys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your in love you know it. Trust me you dont find it often. Too many people say those words and dont mean it. Actions speak louder than words. Does he show he loves you?
2006-10-05 18:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves you then he is willing to wait until you are married to pressure you about having sex with him. If he is normal, this will be tough, but he will do it "if" he loves you. True love waits. True love is patient, kind, not jealous or boastful. True love serves and does not expect. True love is honest, generous and encouraging. True love is worth waiting for. Did I say patient? True love goes beyond lust. True love waits. :)
2006-10-05 18:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a battle field. It's different for men and women and it's also different between men and women. What's love for me may not be love for you...ya know?
When it hits you, you'll know!
2006-10-05 18:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an illusion. When you get dumped or 'fall out' of love, you'll see what I mean.
2006-10-05 18:51:04 · answer #11 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋