my girfriend just upped and left my house completely irrational and sent me some insulting txts even though she knew my aunt was dead they were pretty frightening and scary even for me to comprehend.
i had been away all week and she had been down to see my mother also she said my mother past a smart remark to her which i know she didn't
so when my cousin who also had been in my mothers house that week but at adifferant time had been talking about a former flatmate of hers without him knowing that she was living with my girlfriend to say that the person that she was living with made her life hell and that she had to leave
so when my mother told me this without her knowing about who was living with my girlfriend and she really didn't i went and said it back to my girlfriend
She proceeded to give out to me and said that i was a user and a bastard even though shes been livin in my house for 2 years while her house was been built now shes moved has she used this as an excuse to move
2006-10-05 11:44:13 · 19 answers · asked by ciaran 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your going to get dumped ,dumped her first
2006-10-05 11:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Richie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the end people are going to believe what they want to believe. If she won't listen to the truth and she is still upset after a few days perhaps the question you want to ask yourself is "Do I really want to waste my time with someone who acts like this?"
It sounds like she did use this as an excuse to move, but perhaps you didn't explain it well enough or perhaps you are too quick to trust your mother over her. Either way it seems like the two of you have a communications problem even if it is all on her end. You need to sit down with her and figure out a way to compromise on this and a way that the two of you can communicate rationally.
2006-10-05 11:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Understand this, your girlfriend does not respect you otherwise she would not have said nor done the things you mentioned. It will only get worse and what you need to see is that nomatter what you do it will never be good enough.
You need to move on ASAP and find someone who respects you for who u are and you respect her, otherwise it'll just end in tears.
If she was my girlfriend, I'd confront her over what she'd said and if she was abusive then bye love...
REMEMBER THIS... women (and men of course) are like busses, if you miss one another will come along...
Do yourself a favour, she's not that special so don't waste any more time and find someone who is...
happy days
2006-10-05 11:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jembo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind of confusing but just leave her alone because it seems as if she used you long enough to get out on her own. I never knew it took 2 years to get a house built. She dont have an excuse thats why she wont answer you.
2006-10-05 11:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get to the bottom of all of this drama, you need to sit down and have a talk with your girlfriend. Always keep the lines of communications open. If she cares about you, she will want to get every thing off her chest. I hope you are able to get everything cleared up, so you and your girlfriend can be happy again!
2006-10-05 11:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is an emotional four year old... welcome to women... if it is not all about them (they word this something like, "I should be first in your life") that is code for I own you sucker and how dare you have any thoughts about anything else other than me... And then she will say something like, "Don't touch me ", "stop that"... etc. It is impossible to tell exactly what you are having to deal with...
heck what do I know she probably just started her period.. and you were the only male in the room at the time...
2006-10-05 11:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by 57chevy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she might be using you temporarily or she just knows something that you dont know. if you had a good realtionship there might be something that someone told to her about you and it might has hurted her, so you need to talk to her and explain that there is no reason for being like that, and if after u talked there is no ur fault that means she's just a b** sorry.
2006-10-05 11:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by sonya_p007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES - sounds like she used you as a place to live. Don't let her come between you and your family. how serious are you if you have a house and she is building one....not good.
2006-10-05 11:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree ? becareful it seems like things have gone sour be on your guard dont let her dump u you dump her? or is she pregnant or on drugs? ya need ask or fire the bullit if you havnt been getting on ;)just say look babes is it me dont you want see me no more if she says wellllll say ok ya dumped see ya;) well worked for me mate rofl sorry be blunt and i know its not funny ;)good luck tc hugs
2006-10-05 11:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by jane e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother probably said something to upset her & she thought you knew about it but you didn't & it's got up her nose
2006-10-05 11:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are better off without her in your life...move on .
2006-10-05 11:51:01 · answer #11 · answered by deb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋