Good friend or amazing girlfriend?

Question

Ok, me and this girl have been friends since 6th grade. We are seniors now, and we have been really good friends sinces about 10th grade. Things are awesome between us, like we love to be around eachother, she always smiles and takes my arm in the halls, she calls me her boo all the time, and we just went to homecomming together. Occaisionally she gives me a kiss on the cheek, but i never see her act like she does with me, with other people. We got in a fight the other day because ever since homecomming, shes been acting really weird, and i dont know y. She stopped calling me boo, she stopped smilling and taking my arm, and she basicaly stopped looking at me. We made up today and it feels really good. I think that im madly in love with her, but i cant find the courage to tell her, because im afraid she wont feel the same way and things will be weird between us from now on, if she doesnt feel the same way. wat should i do?

I asked her to go out to dinner with me on sunday, cuz shes busy on friday an saturday, shes gonna call me tonight to tell me if she can go, cuz she gets really busy with work and stuff. so im hopping that she says yes, because i think if its just the two of us, i can probably talk to her about how i feel.

everyone that were friends with thinks im crazy. The two girls we sit with at lunch think im stupid, and so do my other friends. The thing with her is, shes stubborn, headstrong, independent, but i dont think i would have her any other way, i think she is genuinly beautiful, i could sit and look into her eyes for hours and not get bored.

Answer 1

ok.. sounds to me that she is really hinting around that she likes you..and is getting tired of waiting for u to make a move. trust me, whether or not she rejects u is not the point.. the point is, YOU have to be a man about your Feelings.

the thing about men and women, is that (ideally)...the man let's the woman know he's interested. then he waits for her answer. if she follow your lead, if she says "yes", then she likes you and is interested. if she says "no", then u have to respect her wishes. if she says "maybe", then maybe...but u have to decide how long u can wait. but never , EVER do u keep your love inside and "pretend" to be her best friend. please don't do that.. u are like punishing yourself into the "friend zone" without even trying!!!

really....guys and girls have hard time really truly being good friends...i mean, if u are hiding your love for her, u are not really being her FRIEND, cuz there are other feelings involved.. ur pretty much lying to urself and her. but if u let her know how u feel, as Respect for your feelings (she should be flattered that u Love her!), and as Respect for HER (u want to be More than friends, don't lie to her!). and no matter what happens, be strong. be confident, and dont' let it make u so sad.. i mean, at least u tried.. if u don't , u will always regret it.

even in terms of holding hands, kissing.. i think the guy tries, and if she accepts, she is letting him know she will follow, and is on the same page. but if she let's go, or moves away, that means she's not ready to go to the same level. but as long as u respect her wishes, there's nothing wrong with letting her know how u feel. good luck!

Answer 2

Look don't make the same mistake I did. Tell her that you love her. I have had this really good friend since the 5th grade and I have liked him ever since. I never told him. One day he calls me up and we get to talking. He asks me" Do you know who I liked In the 6th grade?" and I said no. He said that he liked me and I was so mad because even though I still like him that is when I started liking him and now I don't know if he still likes me. I bet that if I would have told him then we would be together because I know that we should be and so do all of my friends. They even want me to ask him to homecoming. So tell her and if she doesn't love you back then at least you wont have to live with that question going through your head. The question that I ask myself everyday and that question is " Does he still like me and will I ever tell him how I feel?" I really hope that I helped you and good luck.

Answer 3

i think its getting obvious that she likes you as well, and i would think thats the reason she went with you to homecoming. i mean if i had a guy friend for a long tme and i just liked him as a friend nothing else, i would have gone with another guy to the homecoming UNLESS i was the super sweet girl. and IF your friend was only the super sweet type, she wouldnt act the way she has after that dance, she would have acted like she did before. so its getting obvious that she likes you as well.

youve gone one step forward in going out with her to a dance, and second step making up and confronting the arguement situation and now follow the next step, go up to her and tell her how you feel, or better no...dont tell her that yet, just ask her out, then after a couple of dates, THEN tell her how you feel. because if you blurt it all out, she might get overwhelmed and not be too open, so go little by little.

Answer 4

Kiss her.
Really kiss her. A few times.
She will either be really happy that you feel the same way she does...
Or
she will think it is really weird of you & she will treat you the same way she did last week.

Answer 5

Talk to her. Sounds like maybe she feels the same way?

Answer 6

TELL HER!!!!!! you'll never kno how she feels unless u tell her....and chances are she feels the same way, if she's been friends with you for so long..she obviously loves being with you

Answer 7

tell her how you feel...I think she likes you just as much and went to homecoming w/you and was probably expecting a bit more than a smooch on the cheek....so she's a bit pissy....